Porte A Vie - Sextrology - Pisces

Get in line with every other guy in town, because they all have a crippling soft spot for this feminine and mystical Pisces woman. 


Porte A Vie - Sextrology - Aquarius

She will not have a problem being the aggressor behind closed doors.  She is a beacon of self-confidence, and you will feel that when you are alone with her.  What is sexier than a confident woman?  Not much. 


Virgo Woman - Aries Man

He will never forget the first time he saw her, because no one can forget the first time they see an angel.  Everything about her is angelic; her voice, the way she smells, her sweet voice, and her innocent disposition.  She will touch his hand, and he will feel a cool chill run up his spine, and when he looks into her crystal clear eyes, he will be hooked.  He will hastily decide that no matter what, he has to have her.  What he doesn't know is that under that angelic exterior, is an analytical, cool tempered, strong woman that has many lessons to teach his fiery, impulsive, hasty, child like self.  You see Aries, she is a perfectionist meaning if you want this woman, you will have to shape up or ship out.  It probably won't take her long to figure out your weak spots.  Virgos have a knack for finding the cracks in anything, and she will find yours.  She will have no patience for games, outbursts, hotheadedness, or squabbling about silly things.  She will need this Aries man to be the Cardinal sign he is, and lead their relationship into a wonderful direction, which he most certainly can do if he puts his whole heart and head into.  

While she shapes this man into the best man he can be, he will soften her sharp edges.  He will bring the child out in her, that remains hidden behind her analytical mind.  He will do things that touch her heart in ways she forgot possible.  He will also bring a confidence in herself that she most definitely needs from time to time.  He will be her greatest supporter, and make her realize all of the amazing things about herself.  He is quite the confident guy himself, and he won't have anyone criticizing his love, and that goes for herself too.  He will make sure that she knows how much he loves everything she does for him.  He does after all love everything to be about him.  He loves to be the boss, but he must learn to do this in a respectful way.  Most Virgo women are quite tidy, and he will absolutely love this about her.  Aries love to spoil, and are very generous.  So, you see, it will be very easy for them to take care of each other not just emotionally, but tangibly as well. 

They will have to learn to let each other be themselves.  They are so very different, yet when they are positive with one another, are able to blend together in an absolutely beautiful way.  This woman is extremely critical, but so kindhearted. And he is so domineering, yet sweet.  She is wonderfully close to the one she loves, and he would get the Moon for her if she asked.  Being a Mutable Earth sign, she is a steadfast lady with a chatterbox mouth, and with him being a Cardinal sign he is a strong leader. They will have a lot of great conversations. They will want to talk about anything and everything.  He will love listening to her beautiful intelligent mind, and she will think highly of his powerful entrepreneurial ways.  Together they can make one hell of a team.  Once a Virgo woman enters your life, everything around you just starts getting better. There is just something in the way she takes control of everything, and makes it so perfect.  If he can let her take control in some areas, and if she can let go and let him lead her, they will have a love and a life most would envy.

In the bedroom He is messy and wild, she is pristine and thoughtful. Their sex is innocent and fun. He will have to get her to loosen up a bit so that they are able to have a good time. She will love his stamina and affection, but he will need to give her time to refresh herself. Their differences are vast, but they can make it work with care.  He will learn to have to take it slow with her.  Not everything has to be so fiery and fast.  Between them, there will be more mental respect at first than emotional.  But overtime, they will build both with each other.  He must understand that it will probably take her more time than himself, and that he should not take this too personally.  Not everyone moves at the same pace.  She just needs to analyze things a lot more than he will.  Most Aries will take it personally, but if he can understand that is just her way of doing things he will start to understand her.  If she can realize that even though he may seem brash, that his intentions are always in the right spot.  She will never have to guess where he stands, because he will always make that clear which is quite a refreshing thing.  

Every time that their personalities start to clash, there is no reason that they cannot mend the problem with a little thought, and a lot of love.  They both love to fix things, and together they can get through just about anything.  His love is sweet and hers is pure.  When she lets her senses go, and trusts his enthusiasm is when she will start to feel closer to him.  Let yourself get close Virgo and open your wings to let him whisk you away to his reality.  This man is made to lead, this man is made to protect, this man is made to love you.  His fiery passion will keep you warm on the coldest nights.  It is like that Erin Bronson quote; “There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?" 


Gemini Woman - Virgo Man

She is a chatty fluttering fairy, and he is a quiet analytical angel.  He does not have the desire in life as she does to be out and about talking to every which person she can talk to.  She just has so much to say and so much to do, he will wonder how she gets it all in a days work.  Her spirit is free, and likes to remain as such.  She is not a heavy being, and has no desire to have anything weighing her down.  He loves his routines, and having things the way that they always are and always should be.  He does not have a need for extreme variety, or spurts of change.  Why fix it if it isn't broken is his motto.  You can see that these two are very different, and yet they have one huge thing in common; communication.  These two really do love to talk.  They are both ruled by Mercury, and are both very good with their words.  Their first meeting could have very well been a conversation filled with hilarious banter.  They both have quite the sense of humor.  They very well could have met at their sales jobs, Mercury ruled signs are very good at sales.  Either way they met, and even though these two are square to one another and not what the Astrology world would call "the best match", I think that these two could really figure out how to be very beneficial for each other in many ways.

This Virgo Man will love to overthink everything, and she will love to do the complete opposite.  She will teach him that spontaneity is a good thing and makes life so much colorful.  He will teach her that for some things, like financial decisions for example, that it is best to mull them over.  They will have a constant give and take when it comes to this aspect of their relationship.  He can also be quite the nag, especially when it comes to house work.  This man loves a tidy life, and most Gemini women get to the house work when they can.  He has to learn that if he nags and cages her too much, that she will eventually fly away.  What he needs to realize is to not sweat the small stuff and look at the big picture.  If he wants this to work, he will have to realize the gem that he has in front of him, and let his inhibitions behind finding the "perfect woman" that does not exist.

One thing they will never fall short on is making each other laugh.  She has so many characters, and the most ridiculous things to say that will have him in hysterics.  His dry sense of humor will have her questioning his seriousness at times, but when he cracks that smile and his clear eyes dance her heart does a little flip that gives her butterflies in her stomach.  He will take care of all of the logistics and little things that she tends to miss from time to time, and she will give their relationship a pulse and a life full of color he could have never imagined. 

When it comes to sex with a Gemini woman, her body always follows her mind.  The Virgo man will have no problem entertaining her in this arena, because his mind is sharper than most.  They will have intellectual debates that will even continue in the bedroom. Her personalities may scare him out of his socks at first, but if he can open up to her he is in for the ride of his life. He is a little rigid when it comes to sex at times, and just needs someone to break him out of his shell which shouldn't be too difficult for her.  If he can learn to let go, their sex will be lite and a lot of fun if he can do this.  Neither one of them is overly emotional at all, so there will be a simplicity with their sex that they will both truly enjoy.  One thing that they have to be very careful about however is that it doesn't become too surface.  Make an effort to go a little out of each of your comfort zones to show some depth, or the relationship will never grow. 

Yes, there will be days where they drive each other crazy.  Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but with a combo like this it is bound to happen.  However, there is a safeness that she feels with him that calms her need to fly.  And there is a sweetness to her that he so desperately needs in his life.  He really does adore her, even all of her quirks and flaws that he may pick at from time to time.  With her he will never be bored, and with him she will never have to worry about the big stuff.  This relationship is a lot about meeting half way a lot of the time, but there is so much beauty in their differences that if they can open their eyes to see, they can benefit from in so many ways.  This relationship may work best if they are both a little older, and have both sewn some seeds.  The Virgo Man can really only handle so much, and I believe Gemini Women start to figure themselves out when they get older, as we all do, and start to simplify their many personalities and simplify their lives.  If a Gemini Woman is reading this right now, she knows as well as I do that nothing is impossible for this woman, and if she loves this man enough she can make it happen.  She can make his heart so light, and his laugh so pure that he will he fly alongside with her, maybe only returning to Earth if they absolutely have to.  Love is compromise, and these two can tell you all about it.


Pisces Woman - Pisces Man

I believe that every Pisces out there has a view on love that not any of the other Sun Signs are really able to possess.  It is something that maybe they understand just a bit more than all of us do because they have been through the Karmic wheel and have felt all the other ways to love.  They have a wisdom about it, and a cam understanding that they want to find it.  When these two fish meet each other, and their watery deep eyes meet there will be a moment where they see themselves in each other.  She will think, "Oh, there you are.  Where have you been my whole life?"  And he of course will think the same of her.  There is a magic and a dreaminess that connects these two souls, that have been swimming around the ocean to find their one true love.  However, just like any conjunctive Sun Sign pairing there will be a few storms at sea.

Pisces are known to be a bit unrealistic, emotional, weak willed, naive, and enjoy escaping reality.  They love to drown from time to time, and so these two will have to work at bringing each other up for air from time to time.  If these two fall into a circle of bad habits it would be very hard to get them out.  They should use the positive aspects of their signs to stay constructive.  They are kind, compassionate, wise, intuitive, and come up with incredible ideas that the world needs.  If these two can support each other's dreams and push each other to the finish line of their goals, they will reach a state of complete euphoria.  As I have explained in The Pisces Man, there are whales and fish. If these two are whales, then it will be smooth sailing. 

There will be nothing bossy in the way they handle each other.  They are so in tuned with how each other is feeling that they can probably even complete each other's sentences.  There is nothing brash or harsh in their mannerisms, just kindness and feeling towards one another that we could all learn from.  They are both talkers once you get them going.  They are Mutable Signs after all.  They will love to talk about anything and everything together; music, philosophy, the weather, what they had for breakfast, what they dreamed about the night before..... I think you get the picture.  They have so many beautiful fluid ideas and dreams in their had, and they need a canvas to paint them on which is why and how they communicate, colorfully.

If these two are swimming together at the right place and right time, things will tend to stay nice and wet. There is nothing demanding and wild about their sex, it is easy, sweet, and fresh. They are deeply intimate with one another, and can reach depths that most would never even understand. The way they love really is so romantic and classic.  It is new but traditional.  He is the man and she is his damsel in distress, and then depending on the tides that day they will switch roles.  They are fluid and versatile with one another, constantly finding out new things.  Just like the ocean, depending on where you are, how the sun is hitting it, or what the weather is like, you can never really see it the same way twice.

They will be there for each other constantly for each other in very different ways depending on what the other needs.  If she is sad, he will be her clown.  If he is failing professionally, she will be his biggest cheerleader in his newest venture or idea.  There will never be a dull moment between these two, and they will constantly be feeling each other out to see what the other one needs from each other.  It is almost as though they become one person many of the times.  If ever these two start to feel astray from one another, all they have to do is look into each other's eyes and remember that very first day they saw their twin soul.  All they have to do is remember how they knew that day that no matter what happened, this person was the beginning of the end.  And that all they need at the end is each other's love.  And if they can keep that alive, the rest will always have a way of figuring itself out, and it always somehow does with a Pisces.


Aquarius Woman - Aquarius Man

Aquarians are hard people to pin down.  I guess when you are from another planet, it would be pretty hard for anyone to really understand you off the bat.  But when these two see each other for the first time they will smirk a bit because they can recognize a universe traveler when they see one.  They will most undeniably be friends first and lovers later.  The code to any Aquarian's heart is always friendship first.  They see friendship much more valuable than love which to most may seem odd, but they understand that when the love fades in and out which it does in many relationships, that friendship will get them through the tough times.  Without a strong friendship in a relationship in their relationships, an Aquarius wouldn't survive.

In fact these two will most typically meet through friends.  They both will have large circles of friends of all different backgrounds, and will enjoy getting to know each other's friends as well.  Their social group is nothing to scoff at.  These two are a popular pair, and will know many.  After all, life is all about who you know.

When these two have discovered each others friends, habits, ups, downs, quirks, and built a friendship with one another, they will start to "fall" in love.  I used "fall" in quotes, because Aquarius men and women don't really fall anywhere.  They typically put a great deal of thought into serious actions such as love.  They will be more than just boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife to each other.  They will be each other's travel companion, their shoulder to lean on, their saint, their sinner, their magic, their dreams, their reality, and of course their best friend.  You see, Aquarius partners expect a lot out of their partner, and will settle for nothing less than the best.

When it comes to sex, they will both expect the extraordinary from each other.  Anything less is just not acceptable.  Once they can figure out each other’s sexpectations, love making will come so naturally.  They have this platonic yet understanding relationship together and their sex is so friendly and understanding because of it.  The phrase "curiosity killed the cat" does not apply to these two.  Their curiosity with each other will open new doors to different worlds that they will enjoy exploring together.

Not everything is always hunky-dory with these two all the time, especially if they don't like each other's friends.  In most relationships there will be a time where leaving one's friends behind is part of being in a committed relationship, but that is absolutely not how an Aquarius works.  They hold on to their friends no matter what.  Even if the friendship is not necessarily healthy. You could see how that can become an issue.  They are also both Fixed Signs which means that they do not lead and they do not follow.  In other words, they are both stubborn.  If they can focus their energy into their naturally humanitarian ways, their natural fixity in their personalities can make them achieve huge change in the world together.

Aquarius are a unique breed in the fact that they are indeed a Fixed Sign, which tends to mean they do not change.  Yet the typical Aquarius is dying for change.  This may seem confusing so let me explain a bit more.  Aquarians want change on a large scale for the better specifically in humanitarian efforts, but are unwilling to change their personal ideals about it or any other ideas they have for that matter.  Once their mind is set on how a way something should be, it would be very hard to make them see it in another way.  So if these two are able to join efforts to a cause, their may be absolutely no stopping them.  How amazing would that be?  The stars would have to align for this to happen, but it could happen. 

The most beautiful thing about Aquarians is their element of surprise.  You never know what to expect with these two.  They will constantly be surprising each other one day after another.  They may forget the details in life, but it is the big picture that really matters most to them both in life and in love.  They don't sweat the small stuff, yet relish together in the entirety of their alien like beings.