Gemini Woman - Gemini Man

Rock. Paper. Scissors. Shoot. This is how they will make some of their most important decisions; fast and without a whole ton of thought.  They do not find the need to sit and ponder everything in life.  The fun part in life is the spontaneity of going wherever the wind takes you.  To most this sounds terrifying, and not a way to go about life.   How can you have no real roots in life?  Well as the character Jack Dawson from the movie Titanic said so well when he was invited to first class to dine with a table of aristocratic snobs, and Rose's mother asks him if he finds his rootless existence appealing he answers, "Well, yes, ma'am, I do... I mean, I got everything I need right here with me. I got air in my lungs, a few blank sheets of paper. I mean, I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, where I'm gonna wind up. Just the other night I was sleeping under a bridge and now here I am on the grandest ship in the world having champagne with you fine people. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next. You learn to take life as it comes at you... to make each day count."

And that is just what these two will do each day together, they will make every day count.  As I have said countless times that the Gemini Man is Peter Pan, and that the Gemini Woman is a sprite otherwise known as Tinkerbell.  Together they can live in their Neverland, undisturbed by the  harshness if reality. Who really wants to grow up anyways? These two will go through life wanting to learn something new every day, and what better way to do that with your best friend?

These two are both very chatty, I mean they are both Mutable Signs after all. They are so good with words, and can even make bad news sound good. This is that couple that will be both talking at the same time, sometimes about the same thing and sometimes not. They may tend to leave their listeners in a tizzy, but they both love to be heard. This may sometimes tend to make them battle for the stage, but if they do battle it won't be a long one. They get over things as fast as they got under it, because they are already moving on to the next thing before you can even bat an eye.

They are the sign of the Twins, because in each Gem lies two if not more personalities. So imagine how many characters you will see come out of this couple. Many Geminis have an alias, or a nickname for their alter ego. The two of them will have several nicknames for one another, and will love waking up to see who they are dealing with that day, hour, or even minute. Because of their duality, their sex will be different and magical every time. There is a certain understanding between these two sexually. There is something so wistful, fun, and light about their sex. It is magical, almost like looking at a prism when the light hits it just right, and you see all of the beautiful colors scatter and dance across the room. What they have is nothing short of magic.

Sometimes the other twin will want to escape for a while when they feel like they are losing themselves in their partner, and they get so caught up in the moment that they leave their love in the dust. One thing that these two will have to work on is to not get ahead of themselves or their counterpart. Hold hands through life, and race across the stars together. As every Gemini knows, it is not the destination that matters but the journey itself. He will have to reassure her that he is there for her even while he is away on one of his Gemini endeavors, but assure her you will be together soon. Geminis do not care for loneliness one bit, they get bored way too easily for that.

These two are as lighthearted can be, but it takes a long time for them to really make a decision to give them whole selves to another. It takes patience, trust, and a deep connected friendship to really and completely be ready for the M word (aka marriage). Life to a Gem is never meant to be lived to seriously, and marriage is a serious topic that they do not in any sense take lightly. They may even have to part ways for a bit because one is ready and the other is not, but usually the other twin will realize that they want to return to their quirky and magical sense of reality that only they two of them can really make. They will realize that they really aren't like other couples, and they love that about their relationship. Most couples strive to be one with each other, but that sounds so boring to this Gemini duo. Besides, how is that possible for a couple that is not even one person within themselves to be one with someone of the same nature? It is not, and that is something quite incredible.


Taurus Woman - Taurus Man

The Taurus Man has a sweet strong way about him.  This is something that most women will swoon over, but the Taurus Woman silently appreciates it.  These two have so much in common with one another which they will really love about each other.  They will both love the great outdoors, they will both love the fresh smell of grass on their porch while drinking fresh French pressed coffee, and over a crisp newspaper they will love discussing the raise of their stocks in the current market.  They truly are such tangible creatures, and this is something that they will love to share.  They will probably have an incredibly beautiful home together, filled with leather, wood, and plush furnishings, and most likely an animal or two.  They are the couple that has a garden that most would envy. They both have quite the green thumb as most Earth Signs do.

There are definitely Bulls that are city dwellers as well.  Taurus are naturally drawn to anything financial, and these two will possibly even meet at work.  They do have excellent work ethic and they are naturally inclined to jobs that showcase that well.  They do love the lavish life that the city has to offer them, but there is something deep down in a Taurus' soul that longs to be in nature.  These two may even decide to retire at a ranch, and pick up a knack for horseback riding.  Things like that come so naturally to them.  See, things are so much more pleasurable to the senses than a city and a Bulls senses are so important in in making them happy.  So maybe they may never make it out of the city, but they will vacation often to escape the noise and bustle.

I have gotten a bit ahead of myself with these two, but marriage is just something that will come between these two so naturally that it is almost expected.  However, one way they won't make it is if for any reason their stubbornness gets in the way.  We all know that Bulls are famous for being very stubborn, and once they have stuck their heels in there is usually no moving them.  This will make things impossible for them to communicate, which will make things impossible for them to ever get to a resolution. They are both fighters through and through.  If the topic of the fight is bad enough, Taurus men and women have been known to just completely walk away from relationships.  They are patient, so they will take their sweet time for the other person to surrender which just doesn't always happen.

Sex will be something that can heal a lot of their issues, and soften their willfulness against each other.  As I mentioned before, these two are tangible and their attraction will be carnal for one another. They will have an earthly, slow, and physical union. They will go to another dimension with one another, just by hearing the sound of each others voices.  They will both usually have a beautiful voice, sensual almost.  They will enjoy each other very much.  But every once in a while, being the fact that they are both relaxed and sometimes lazy Bulls, will need to spice things up every once in a while.  It won't take much more that a tender touch or a soft kiss.  Aphrodisiacs are something that work well, so go out for a round of oysters and finish with some dark chocolate with a bottle of red wine and they will be in business in no time.

Together they really can have a beautiful life together, and they will.  They are truly a beautiful match together.  As a team, they are able to make a beautiful home together, have beautiful memories filled with delicious dinners, amazing vacations and nights of sensuality.  They will have a beautiful nest egg in the bank, making their retirement years potentially some of the best years of their life.  These Venus ruled creatures may just be living on Venus here on Earth.  A life full of lovely love.


Aries Woman - Aries Man

As independent and strong as he is, she is just the same.  These are two Rams we are dealing with here; they will either hook horns or climb a mountain together, or maybe a little bit of both. When meeting these two for the first time, your first reaction will probably be WOW, with a cloud of smoke behind it.  These two mean business, and in no way do I mean that lightly.  In fact, these two may even end up in business together, either running one, or being key parts in a Fortune 500.  You see they are both fiery independent Cardinal Signs aka natural born leaders.   These people don't have a boss, they ARE THE BOSS.  These two will have to be equals in every sense of the word if this is to work.  Equals at home, equals at work, and equals in bed. 

There will be times of domination from both him and her, but because this is a masculine ruled sign he will probably take the cake.  Or at least you will let him think he does.  There is a lot of masculine energy between these two.  They can literally run the world together if they just learn to get along.  However, behind that hard Ram exterior is a woman that wants and craves to be taken care of.  When you are in the arms of an Aries man, you will always be taken care of which is something she loves.  One place she does not mind giving up her power is in the bedroom.  Especially if her Ram knows what he is doing.  Let's be honest, he is an Aries... of course he knows what he is doing.

It is funny that we are talking about sex so early on in this relationship, usually I save it until the end. But with these two, sex will be at the forefront of their relationship in a lot of ways. There will be a lot of sex between these two. They both like being in charge which can cause a few problems in the bedroom. They have explosive sex with each other, but she needs to remember that HE is the man. If she can learn to give up a little of her independence, and let him take control in the bedroom the sky is the limit with these two. It’s definitely a hot combo.

She really is like taking a shot of cinnamon whiskey, hot at first but she really does finish sweet.  She is fiery alright, but so is her male counterpart.  Sometimes even more to her surprise.  One day she will watch him take a work call, and she will think to herself, "Damn, I am with such a boss."  And she is lucky, but so is he.  However, one thing he will need to do is separate his work from his personal life.  Especially with her.  She has no patience to be bossed around.  She has a daddy, she doesn't need two. No matter WHO you are, she will want you to take her opinion into consideration.  Keeping that in mind, communication with these two will be key in making this relationship really work. 

This woman has a youthful, giving and sweet spirit about her that wants to truly find her Casanova who will spoil her.  Someone who will wine and dine her, someone who is generous, and someone who will ride off into the sunset with her into all her all of unrealistic dreams.  An Aries man can do all of that for her, because he himself is just as young at heart and dreamy as she is.  Aries are the first Sun Sign in the Karmic wheel, making them of the babies of the Zodiac.  They LOVE to get their way, and as long as these two want the same things, there is nothing that can stand in their way.

There is something that is so uncontrollable about their love, almost like a wildfire that is even too hot to be stopped by water.  However, when something is too hot sometimes it can burn out too fast.  If these two want to last, they will have to try to keep their heat at a smolder to make it last as long as an Aries possibly can.  Everything they do will be at 110%; their love making, their fights, their work ethic, etc.  If I can tell you anything, I would tell you to try to do your absolute best to remember your partner and how lost you may be without them.  As independent as the Ram is, they deeply long for a partner.  A true life partner.  So be kind and patient with one another.  If anyone can understand your significant other, it is you for you are one in the fiery same.  There is a very simple rule that these two can always come back to, "Do to others what you want them to do to you."  If you both can live by this, you two can truly rule the world together.


Conjunction; is it the new Trine?

Linda Goodman is my Astrology guru.  I have loved her work forever, and own all of her books in which I have read multiple times.  She always believed that being in a relationship with someone that was Trine to your Sun Sign was the ideal match for you.  If you have absolutely no idea what all of this Trine business is that I speak of please visit this post for more explanation.  I still do believe that being with someone that is Trine to you is easier, but Linda wrote her books years ago, and times are changing.

I have noticed that a lot of people, including myself, are marrying people that are Conjuct to their sign. Meaning you are in a relationship with the same Sun Sign that you yourself are. I have been pondering over the past year why this could be, and I think that it could be for a few reasons. People are now marrying at an older age. When you live alone, or when you are single for some time, you form an incredibly important and strong relationship with yourself. As Carrie Bradshaw said, “The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous.”

We are not in the days of our mothers and grandmothers anymore.  We are no longer pressured to get married at 20, we are no longer obligated to find our self-worth through childbearing.  Our 20's are now a time for self discovery, not self-sacrifice for others.  For those of you that are young mothers and fathers, I have the utmost respect and praise for you and I am not saying that you are not independent and self-aware, it is just harder to find that piece of yourself when you have other people that depend on you.  

Maybe we are now marrying our same Sun Sign, because women and men fall in love with themselves before they fall in love with another?

Think about it for a moment....

I do not want this to be taken egotistically, but more of just something interesting to think about.  I am a Scorpio (I have a Sagittarius Rising and Scorpio Moon) and I am undoubtedly married to my soulmate who is a Scorpio (he has a Leo Rising and an Aries Moon).  I would be completely lying if I told you that our relationship was easy, but the things that I do love about him most are things that we have in common. We share the same goals, the same desires, the same lust for life, and we are on the same playing field.  We are true equals to one another.  Isn't that the way of the future?

I have written 4 Conjuct relationship posts thus far;

I will be starting a new series in which I will be finishing the rest of the Conjunct Relationship posts.  So if you yourself are in one of these relationships stay tuned.  Conjunction junction, what's your function? 


Capricorn Woman - Gemini Man

These two are most definitely a modern couple by your typical definition. Not to say that she is the man in the relationship by any means, she just has a lot of characteristics that are stereotypical of a man's role in a relationship.  For example, to be the more practical and level headed one.  The Gemini Man is not by any means feminine, but he is and always will be young at heart. He is the Peter Pan of all of the signs, and he has no intention of growing up.   They may even bicker about how she acts too old and needs to lighten up, and she will say he is immature and frustrating.  She is definitely the grown up out of the two of them, but he lightens her heart in a way that she needs so bad.  He is definitely the fun one out of the two of them, but he makes his life have so much more stability and meaning that he didn't even know he was missing.

After some time, and when trust has been built he will see more and more of her personality peek out from her high built walls and he will adore her even more. One thing she will have to work on is criticizing him too much. One thing a Gemini man just cannot stand is someone who nitpicks. There are other ways to sway this man, but nagging is not one. He will have to be a little more responsible with things that he never placed importance on before he met her, like money. She will most likely pay the bills and he will most likely be just fine with that. She will take care of things at home, and he will take care of her heart.

This relationship usually works better when the Gemini man is later through his life. If he is young, this may be a learning lesson for both of them and they could even come back together at a later time when he is ready to meet her halfway. She is always a grown up, even when she is young. I cannot say the same about Gemini. His twins are always fighting about what he should be doing in his life, and he usually goes where the wind, or in this case his stronger twin, takes him. He is a free spirit, and she is a rock. Sometimes her steadiness is too much for him, and makes him feel uncomfortable and trapped. He may even need a hiatus every once in a while, which is something that will frustrate the Capricorn. If you love this man, let him go. He will come back if it is right.

As I mentioned earlier, Capricorn women have an older soul, and Geminis are youthful and lively. At first their sex will be physically fulfilling which is usually enough for him, but she will want more. In bed he will bring an element of freshness and fun. This woman will teach him to have rooted, deep, and meaningful sex. She will pull him right down from the clouds into her earthy oneness. She makes him present in the act, when most of the time his mind is wandering. She will make him connect in sex in a way he has probably not felt a need to before. She gives sex more of a purpose than just surface.

One way to keep their relationship fresh is travel. This is something that they will really love to do together, and he will be at his best during these times. She is not as much a wanderlust as he is, but if she has luxurious and comfortable surroundings where she is able to get her Starbucks and normal rituals of home, she will enjoy it for him. One good thing for him would be to travel with his friends. Let him go Cappy! He needs the freedom.

He is a confusing guy, but there is something about this man that brings a new and fun perspective to her usually gray life. He brings in laughter, color, and kindness. Things her heart has needed for so long. As Mercurial and ever-changing this man is, she may never understand him, but she knows she never wants to lose him. She is patient and she is stubborn. If she wants this man, she will create the patience she needs to make anything work. If he is smart, he will realize what a gem this woman is in his life and how she brings a sense of balance to his mind and life. Sometimes Gemini, its nice to just stand still. Like Carrie Bradshaw says in Sex and the City, "I've done the merry go round I've been through the revolving door I feel like I met somebody I can stand still with for a minute and... don't you wanna stand still with me?" Yes Gemini, you have finally found someone that can and WANTS to stand still with you. Relish and cherish that.


Capricorn Woman - Scorpio Man

These two are always looking towards the horizon together.  It will be one thing that really bonds them.  Once they do date, it is rare that these two will not marry.  They only have room in their heads to dwell on the future and where they are going, rather than wasting time on thinking about their past.  They will portray a couple that is strong, successful, and never has any problems.  There are no frills or over the top displays of love or affection, because they have more of a quiet and strong understanding.  The energy between them is... grown up.  These two thrive on having all of their ducks in a row, and together they make a great team at this.  They are that couple that are college educated with the house, the cars, the hefty savings account, and great jobs.

One thing they also have in common is how private they are.  These two have no desire to let anyone know of any problems that they do have.  You might be asking yourself what kind of problems such a well off couple may have, but we all know there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.  One thing they do differ about is their true inner emotional beings.  A Scorpio man is much more emotional than he ever leads anyone to believe.  This may come as a shock to a Capricorn woman, seeing her strong Scorpio mate so emotionally up in arms about something.  But as I have explained in the Scorpio Man post, there is a whole other side to this man that most people will never know unless you are truly close to him.  He really does care a great deal what others think of him, unlike her where she could give a damn.  She is not a Water Sign as he is, and her emotional nature tends to be a lot more consistent.

When they meet one another, they will both have their walls up, and both for similar reasons. He will have his up to protect his emotions, and hers to protect her soft heart.  If they can just let each other in, they will really find out how incredible a union between them can be.  And that is why I mentioned earlier that if they do end up jumping the hurdles that they create for the other person, they will most likely marry.  After several years of solid marriage, they will have to work on the Zsa Zsa Zsu as Carrie Bradshaw from Sex in the City calls it.  She explains it like this, "That butterflies-in-your-stomach thing that happens when you not only love the person, but you gotta have them. Isn’t that what gets you through the years? Even if it fades, at least you have the memory of the zsa zsa zsu…'”  And let's face it, the zsa zsa zsu fades in every relationship, but because these two can tend to be a little too practical they will need to make a bit more effort to spice things up.  Travel is a great thing for them.  A change of scenery is always good for the zsa zsa zsu.

When it comes to sex, he is always looked at as a sexual sign, which they are but not like how many imagine. He is sexy, and does exude a sexual nature. However, he does not pursue sex as a hobby but treats sex as a religious experience. She will be intrigued with his intense sexual energy. She may even feel uncomfortable as his eyes penetrate the walls she has built so sturdy around herself. Their sex is clear and uncomplicated. He has a sexual hypnotism over her that should frighten her, but doesn’t. She can let lose sexually and feel comfortable around him. They feel safe and comfortable in each other’s presence.  As confident as she is, her sexuality is not something that she has had ease with in the past.  Yet with him it is so natural.

Her strength mixed with her soft ways, makes him want to fulfill her in every way.  There is something so lonely about her, and he wants to be the one to change that.  She doesn't believe in fulfillment through relationships, but he will arouse passion and feelings in her that she has never felt before.  All of this will happen in the privacy of their own home behind closed doors of course.  But if you look at them closely, you will see their eyes meet and her stoic stare will be broken by his intense eyes and they will both smile just a bit.  You see, these two understand something just not quite everyone can really get.  A bonding of two hearts that are not easily attainable.


Sagittarius Woman - Libra Man

Falling for a Libra man is such an easy thing to do.  Seriously though, there is nothing about this man that is short of absolutely charming.  If this Sagittarius woman has been hurt in the past, this duo may be nothing but a lovely lustful bond, because she will not believe that his charms are real.  She is no fool, and has no time for any games.  Stick around though Sag, this guy has a lot more to him than just a beautiful dimpled face and smooth words.

She will be asking herself every step of the way, "Should I keep seeing this guy?"  He will find her hesitation amusing, and a challenge.  The chemistry will undoubtedly be there, but she will take forever to believe that it is real.  I believe that every Sagittarius should tattoo a heart on their wrist, because they really do wear it on their sleeve.  Once a Sag has been hurt by people that she so beautifully trusted, she will be a lot smarter about jumping in head first.  To love or not to love, that is always Sagittarius' question.  They are so free and full of fire, and she has had people try to dim her light in the past.  He won't though, in fact it is as though he does the opposite.  He will feed her fire, and make her lust for life the way she should.  The way she is made to.

With the Libra man, she will learn that love really can be forever.  Libra is the sign of relationships, and Sagittarius is all about travel, adventure, and continued learning.  There is a saying that you never go a day without learning something new, and that most definitely holds true to a Sagittarius.  He is a natural leader, being the Cardinal Sign that he is, and she is a Mutable Sign making her an excellent communicator.  If she can give him the direction, he can make things happen for her that she never imagined.

She does not have to be talked in to wanting forever with him.  She wants that one true love that she has always believed is out there, it may just take her time to believe.  So have patience Libra, and stick around.  She is totally worth it.  She always looks at the world through her rose colored glasses no many hardships or heartbreaks she has been through.  He sunny disposition is sometimes a facade for what she has really been through, but life is too short for her to mope around.  The world is a big beautiful place filled with so many adventures to go on, people to meet, and love stories to experience.

These two are quite the pair; she is so smiley, hilarious and clumsy while he is so charming, and indecisive.  At times they really can be like Frick and Frack.  They also find each other quite hilarious and amusing as well.  It does not take a whole lot of effort for them to get along at all, especially once they have played the "should we be together" game.  There is an ease about them that not a lot of other sign combinations have.  They have a ton in common, and they may not see it right away but they really do want the same things in life.

The friendship they have deepens the meaning of their sex. They thoroughly enjoy sharing their bodies with each other, and she will love how he appreciates her femininity. Their sex is cheerful, free, and fun. Being the talker she is, she will like to talk about how awesome it was, and he won't mind a bit. They connect through conversation just as much if not more than sex. They feel like they can even see the world a little clearer after oneness with each other.  

Sometimes however, her conversation can turn blunt which will hurt him.  This is something she will need to work on.  His indecisiveness is something that will irritate her, and it will be something that he will have to improve upon.  She is way more impulsive than he is, and he will not understand that about her at all.  He loves a good nap, and peaceful surroundings.  I wouldn't necessarily called being around a Sag peaceful, but it will something that she understand he needs.  He will calm her down, and she will help him understand that you do not need to go through life trying to weigh out every single decision that is ever presented to you.  Sometimes you just need to go where the wind takes you, and that spontaneity in life is what makes it beautiful.

A great example of that will be the day they decide to start dating;  Maybe it was a cool crisp autumn day, and he decided they should get some hot cider and take a walk in the park.  He had probably been thinking about all of the reasons why they should and shouldn't date for days now.  They will sit down on the bench and he will look into her turquoise eyes, the eyes of his best friend, and his lover.  Just as he is about to go through his list of pros and cons the top of her cider comes off as she goes for a sip, and spills all over her white sweater.  They both laugh uncontrollably until tears come out of their eyes, and he then realizes then that his list doesn't even matter.  This girl with all of her perfect imperfections is the one for him.


Pisces Woman - Capricorn Man

Capricorn men are nothing less than strong and solid men.  Pisces women are feminine and beautiful.  They are quite the picture side by side.  He will feel instantly protective of her from the moment he meets her.  He will even feel like it's his job to protect such a fragile and unique creature.  Don't get ahead of yourself though Cappy, she is a lot tougher than you may suspect.  She is a siren after all.  He is a man with tall walls built around his heart, but she is so incredibly intuitive that she will have no problem swimming right around them.  She is so sweet and he can tell that her watery eyes are sincere.  She will love his masculinity, but even more, she will love his tenderness.  He is a self-disciplined man, which will be wonderful for her to learn from.  She is always looking for something or someone to calm the waters around her, so she doesn't always feel like she has to swim upstream.  This man is so hard working, he would build her a dam if she asked him to.

This is not a guy that really cares if his woman works or not.  In fact, much like the Leo Man, he would prefer if he was more successful than his wife.  I do not mean to  make him sound old fashioned by any means, he just places a lot of self-importance on his career.  Every Capricorn does.  So if you are a career woman, and place your career before him, there could be rough waters ahead.  Typically most Pisces women gain their meaning in life from many other places that work, so this match tends to work out beautifully.  If your Capricorn is not at a successful place in his life, you are going to be dealing with a cranky goat.  Not that I ever condone being with someone just because they are successful, but if a Capricorn man does not feel good about himself as a man, you may want to try dating him down the road.  This man needs to reach his peak before really settling down.  If I could pinpoint one thing where the relationship will go wrong, it is because she is too sensitive, and he is too insensitive.  When you hurt a Pisces enough, you will come home one day to an empty house.  It may even come as a shock, because you may not even get a fair warning. However, when you deeply hurt someone who is extremely sensitive, the only thing they can think to do is swim away.  Remember how I told you she is a lot stronger than you may suspect, well I mean it.

He can tend to be quite stubborn, but she is flexible and sensitive.  He is always wanting more in life, but she will show him how to live in the present.  He sets harsh rules and expectations that cannot be met, but she will show him how the rules are made to be broken.  You see, Earth is a very solid and structured element and Water is much more free.  It flows where the Earth takes it.  However, over time water changes Earth making it more green and fertile.  Carving rivers into valleys, and cliffs next to the sea.  It happens gradually, and takes months, even years to see changes.  But once the changes are made, they are permanent.  Water is undoubtedly the strongest element.  She will change him.  Ever so slightly, and for the better.  She will soften him, and bring new perspective to his life that he would never see without her sweet wisdom.  He will ease into becoming a sweeter version of himself.

Sex between them is refreshing.  He will not realize how thirsty he was until he has had her.  She is like a glass of cool water after walking the desert.  She loves being with him, because she aims to please, and her Sea Goat will express that to her.  There is something so sweet and quietly understood between them.  Sometimes you don't have to talk about something to deeply feel it, you just simply feel it.  They feel so whole when they are together, and sex is something that really binds them together.

If he can soften his directness and open his heart to feel her emotions, and if she can try to be a bit less passive and feel secure in his strength, they can make it through anything together.  He will be the rock she needs, and she will be the gentle love he has been looking for.  Together they can sail her ocean blue on the wooden boat he made with his own two hands.


Scorpio Woman - Gemini Man

The Scorpio will meet this man and think, "There is no way I am getting involved with this man.  He is way too youthful, and cheery, and lighthearted.  I am looking for someone serious."  He will enjoy her trying to avoid his charms, and will just lay it on even thicker.  If she gives him the time, she will realize he really can be the serious guy that she is wanting.  You see he is not just one man, he is two or more.  Every Gemini Man has several sides to him that dwell inside his physical being.  She may think she has a handle in this guy right off the bat, but does she?

Whatever this guy throws her way, she can most likely handle.  Scorpio Women can handle pretty much anything.  She will definitely be the serious one out of the two of them, but he likes that.  Life is way too short for him to go around being so serious all of the time.  He doesn't have to always know the where the end of the journey is going to lead, he truly enjoys the ride in every aspect.  She is ruled by the planets Mars and Pluto which rule war and death, while he is ruled by Mercury which rules communication.  His quick wit will save him from her stinger on several occasions, but if they can combine their forces, they can really be quite the pair.  I am sure you have heard the phrase, "Happy wife is a happy life."  Well a happy Scorpio means you get to wake up another day, wink wink.  He is a brave guy, and will enjoy getting her goat, but he needs to remember there is always a line which he shouldn't cross.

Scorpio women tend to be monogamous creatures, but I would not say such of a Gemini.  They wonder too much about what everything would be like if he were with someone else.  They will always long and live for their freedom whether they are with someone or not.  This may make the possessive Scorpio a little crazy.  She likes to keep the ones she love as close as can be.  He finds jealousy to be a waste of time, he is just too lighthearted to be bogged down with such a silly feeling. He will not take her jealousy serious the first time, and seeing that he is a mutable sign, he will probably make a joke about it.  This can go one of two ways; she will laugh it off and realize he is right, or her stinger will come out and he will never joke about her feelings without a lot more thought.  The latter is more probably, so think before you speak Gemini even if you think your Scorpio mate is being a bit much in your eyes.

One thing that will work out every time is their sex life. He is attracted to her like a moth to the flame. She loves sex, and with him you get to make love to his many sides which she will find really fun. Even though he is not as much of a sexual being as she is, she will find a way to pull it out of him making them insanely attracted to one another. It is funny that such a sexual woman and a goofball of a guy are so magnetized by one another, maybe it's changeable aura that has her fascinated and maybe it is the way he can make her smile even when she is trying to be her serious self. They have such a unique hold on each other.

He is so curious about her, and I hope that curiosity lingers in their relationship so that he can understand her deep feelings. There will be many days where they want to connect to one another, but find it too difficult to do so. Their saving grace in these circumstances will be breaking down barriers, and talking to one another, which is not easy when a Scorpio is in a deep emotional state. He is a great communicator, so if he can be the ringleader in their relationship when it comes to talking about things instead of sweeping them under the rug and going along his merry way, this union can work. If she can absorb his bright eyed optimism and try to soften her emotional nature, it may lighten this Scorpio woman up so much, she may even find herself growing wings so that she can soar next to her man. Wouldn't that be something spectacular?


Aquarius Woman - Virgo Man

Virgos are undoubtedly the bachelors of the Zodiac, but Aquarius is a very close second.  You see, these two do not necessarily feel unfulfilled by not having a special someone in their lives.  They are perfectly fine either waiting for a way too perfect person that may never show, or just doing whatever they see fit without a need for companionship until the end of their days.  A Cancer woman cannot even imagine such a thing, and even myself find it quite unbelievable myself, but that is just how they are crafted.  Seeing that is how these two are, you can imagine that it would have to be in the stars for these two to end up in a relationship.  There will be something extremely binding that these two will have to keep them together.  You may not figure it out right away, but keep your eyes open because something is there.  Something so special that creates a bond with them that only these two could possibly understand.

Virgo men have very analytical minds, but not very analytical hearts.  I believe that every Virgo man has a time in his life where one rules the other.  You will know which kind of Virgo you have right away when you meet him.  He is not the best at hiding things you see.  He has no reason to. However, when a Virgo man has been hurt by love, it is rare that he will let his heart lead the way in a relationship after that, because his precise logic will take over every time.

When it comes to Aquarians, they are incredibly picky.  They also have no problem being independent at all.  Not even a little bit. They are also quirky in the best way possible.  You couldn't guess what this girl's next move was even if you tried.  They are changeable, holographic, a total wild card.  Being a Scorpio myself, I have the hardest time figuring Aquarians out.  They are still such a mystery to me, even after studying Astrology for almost 20 years not.  Maybe that is the beauty of them though, they really aren't supposed to be figured out.

Being the analytical he is, he will try to figure her out as well.  He will fail to do so, yet there will be something that he loves about it.  She is always giving him a new puzzle to solve, always giving his sharp mind something to think about.  One day she may even decide after some time that she wants to marry him.  It will be on a day where she is feeling quite love bound, and it will come out of nowhere like most of her ideas do.  Give him some time Aquarius so that your Virgo can retreat to his mind and calculate all of the outcomes of their union.  It is not that he is necessarily afraid of getting married, he is just afraid of anything that could end up hurting his tender heart.

Virgo men are afraid of what they want, but she will make it so easy for him to feel right at home with her.  His sexual energy tenders to linger around like something you can touch, where hers is fleeting and holographic.  They will provide each other with different dimensions of sexual expression.  He is more on the conservative side in bed, and she will be a different person with him every time they rustle the sheets.  One thing he can be certain of, is he will never get bored.

They will definitely have a good sense of humor together no doubt.  He is a mutable sign, and quite the wise cracker.  She has a pretty zany sense of humor herself.  She always has something smart to say, and he enjoys their intellectual banter very much. Together they can be huge goof balls.  It is really quite fun to watch.  His humor is one of the things that she will  love that most about him.   She always searches for a friend first, and then a mate.  Very rarely is it ever the other way around.  Virgos make excellent friends, and someone that can be a great backbone to their relationship allowing her to be the free and fun mystery that she is meant to be.  He however is looking for his one true love.  If they can be those two things for each other, they will make it.  Even when the world may seem upside down, when your relationship is based on true love and friendship you will always feel a sense of home.


Taurus Woman - Scorpio Man

She will never forget the first time she hugged him, and felt a shudder go down her spine as she smelled his sweet yet spicy hair.  He will feel it too, the way she so sensually touched his arm while staring directly into his intense eyes so steadily, but she wont seem to be nervous like the rest of the women he has come across.  There is something so solid, sensual, and strong about her, and he has to have more.  These signs are sexy, no doubt about it.

Sexy yes, but one other thing to learn about these two from the beginning is that they are strong.  Not necessarily in the same ways, but almost in complete opposite ways at that.  He is mesmerizing, fair in his actions, ruthlessly protective, and always has his stinger ready for people that need to be taught a lesson.  She is patient, steady, and won't bat an eye even in the most stressful of circumstances.  Together, they can make quite a powerful pair.

The thing that will attract her to him the most will at first be his tangible sexiness.  There is something about his voice, the way he looks at her, and the way he touches her that makes her, well, a bit nervous.  One place they will meet eye to eye on early on is their sensuality.  I have talked about Taurus women before, and their need for touch.  They are undoubtedly the most tangible sign in the Zodiac.  Because of her love of things, this can turn into jealousy in some cases.  Scorpio is not a stranger to this, but his is more of a possessiveness.  You may be thinking, "What the hell is the difference?"

Miriam-Webster Dictionary Definitions

Possessiveness: of, relating to, or constituting a word, a word group, or a grammatical case that denotes ownership or a relation analogous to ownership

Jealous: vigilant in guarding a possession

So in other words, Scorpios truly like to own and in some cases control the ones they are with, while Taurus will stop the ground if she sees another woman trying to take what is hers.  Similar, yes, but the same, no.  Neither one of these traits are healthy in any relationship, and should be something to be worked on by both parties.  In some cases, they may even enjoy these traits about each other because they can relate to each other in this way.  Everything in moderation I suppose.

These two are on polar opposite ends of the karmic wheel.  This can cause a lot of attraction between the two of them, and a lot of differences at the same time.  They can both teach each other a lot of wonderful things that they need and want from each other.  He will love her practical approach to life, which is an area that he could take a few notes from her on.  He will teach her how to feel passion not just in the tangible, but in other forms as well.

They may spend most of their first dating days getting to know each other in the bedroom, which is funny because she is not really one to rush anything but she may not be able to help herself.  She may even wake up next to him after a night of lovemaking after a few dates thinking, "This is so not like me!"  Not to worry Taurus, even though he is the sex symbol of the Zodiac, he does not take sex lightly either.  When having sex with a Scorpio you see a part of their desire that they seem to hide so well in the outside world.  Sex is a place, and sometimes the only place, where they are able to feel vulnerable.

This man is very black and white, which may be a bit hard for her at times.  He is either all the way in, or all the way out.  She tends to see the grey, and even enjoys it at times.  She doesn't have the extreme in affection and coldness like he does.  In fact she will find it silly at times.  If she can use her patience in these times, and if Scorpio can mellow out a bit, they will be able to find a common ground.  He can be mean with his words, and seem so cold after their relationship seemed so hot.  I hope that is not the case, because I believe that this is really a unique match that truly needs each other in so many ways.


Taurus Woman - Cancer Man

The Cancer Man is known for needing three things;  financial security, emotional security, and family.  This list of course is in no particular order, and importance varies from Crab to Crab.  As we all know, the Taurus Woman values the tangible things in life.  So you see, this can really end up being quite a beautiful match.  She even compliments one of his biggest problems which is not making a direct decision.  Crabs move all sorts of different directions before really taking a huge step forward, but once they have decided they want something there is no stopping them.  This is not a problem at all for the Taurean lady, she has all the time in the world.  In fact, she really appreciates that he doesn't want to just jump right into things with her because she herself likes to take her time when it comes to getting into any sort of serious relationship.  There is no wild passion with them in the beginning, rather a slow and steady building of love.

When things to start firing up between these two, this is a very nice sexual match.  She wants a love that is simple, and Cancer wants one that is deep.  When they have sex they will blend emotionally and physically heavily with one another.  She will give him sexual security, and he will give her comfort and sweetness. They definitely need different things, but in this situation it is a good thing.  Their blending is something that is better combined than left separated.  One is sweet and one is savory.  I will let you guess who is who.

This man is a natural born leader, and she is a fixed sign.  She doesn't mind that he wants to take the reigns on things, on certain things that is.  She doesn't need to be the leader, but she doesn't really care to follow either.  She likes to move at her own pace.  Let's go back to those three things that he really cares about, so I can explain to you how really wonderful this match is.  Financial Security - They do not have a Bull on the sidewalk in front of Wall Street for no reason.  This woman is savvy with money, and he will greatly appreciate that.  She loves to spend too, but that is just fine, because they both enjoy items of quality.  Emotional Security - He will most likely be the more emotional of the two, whether he shows it or not.  She is about as stable as they come, and this will be good for him.  He needs someone to care for him, and she will not mind doing it.  Family - She is a homebody.  She enjoys a night on the town, but through and through she loves being at home in her comfort zone around her things that she has so meticulously picked out.  Not to mention her love for being with her pet/s.  Most Taurus women are known for their love of animals.  I believe it is because of their earthly patient nature that makes it so easy for them to connect.  He will love this about her.  

As perfect as these two may seem, there is one area that will need to be worked on to keep things harmonious;  Communication.  There is probably a Bull or Crab reading this thinking, "We communicate well all the time."  And I would agree, most of the time.  However, in the off chance of a fight, these two tend to revert FAR away from one another instead of really talking about it.  Taurus women tend to be stubborn, and Cancer men are sensitive.  Mix that combination in a fight, and you will rarely hear an, "I'm sorry".  Because of her stubbornness, I mean patience, she has no problem waiting until the cows come home for her Cancer man to apologize first.  These two are very logical people, so if they could just see what a waste of time and energy avoiding each other is, maybe they could resolve this issue together.  

He is so perceptive, that he knows that this woman is undoubtedly the woman for him.  He can feel it in his bones.  One night after many months of not directly asking her if she would be his, he will suddenly have a rush of emotion that comes over him.  He will not be able to hold back feelings he has been fighting since the moment he saw her.  He will look into her soft doe like eyes, and he will touch her face so softly that it will melt her earthly heart to a place of no return, and then she will know too.  Maybe she already did.


Aries Woman - Capricorn Man

Aries women always have something to show everyone.  She never wants to leave anyone out in the cold and alone, and she sure does love a good challenge.  So when she meets the lone wolf that is the Capricorn Man, she will want to engulf him in her warm presence.  She usually has enough charm to talk anyone into anything, and she usually has people loving her within seconds, but with him it is different.  It is as though he barely even notices her, but one thing that the Aries Woman should know now, is there isn't much that he doesn't notice.  He is just not giving you what everyone else gives you; what you want.

Because of this initial first encounter, this pairing does not always make it past those initial first meetings or dates.  The Aries girl doesn't really have time for games you see, you are either in or you are out.  But if she can possibly find it in herself to slow down, and move at the same pace as this earthly Capricorn Man, they may both learn a lot from each other that they would not with anyone else.  Yes, he is shy, but he doesn't need you to be aggressive with him.  He needs you to just stick around for a while so he can wrap his level head around you.

When it comes to sex, Capricorns control their urges a lot more than an Aries can.  Aries are more likely going to have to initiate sex between them.  Hopefully Capricorn can loosen up in bed with Aries for this to work out.  He needs to learn to give in to her, and to stop being so controlled.  Sex isn't something that should be planned or precise, it should be passionate and random.  If they don’t work things out, things can become very dramatic and not even Aries hot fire will be able to melt Capricorns cool exterior.   One thing she can do to ease this tension is to make him feel secure.  Yes, he may seem like the most secure guy you have ever met, but he is longing to feel safe.  He gets worried that if he lets his walls down too soon that a beautiful fiery love may take a piece of his heart he may never get back.  To get a piece of any Capricorn's heart is precious, so take that into consideration when entering into this.

This relationship is not necessarily an easy one, but let's be honest, everyone has their problems.  When angry with one another, they need to remember the reason they got past the hump of commitment that all of the other Aries Capricorn combos did not.  He will love her spunk, her optimism, and even her impulsiveness interests him.  She will love his strength, his quiet understanding, and his consistency that she has been needing.  She may be the "child" in their relationship, but as I have mentioned before, Capricorns grow more youthful in their older years.  So if they stick around in each other's life, they will find each other halfway.  

The Capricorn Man's natural motive in life is to climb, and the Aries Woman knows that the view is always better from the topYes, there will be rough roads ahead, but you can't reach the peak of a mountain to see the view without going off the beaten path.  Hold hands, pack understanding and some "I'm sorry"s for the trip, because if any two signs know how to hike, it is the Goat and the Ram.


Libra Woman - Pisces Man

The first time he sees her, he will admire her beauty.  Then he will recognize her strength, something that he could most definitely learn from her.  The first time she sees him, she won't even be looking for him but she will notice something dreamy and alluring about him that makes her want to cast her pink net of pure charm down into the unknown waters to catch him.  Once she catches him, inspects him, and enjoy his beauty, she has no problem letting him go back to his dreamy reality while she goes back to hers.  This isn't good enough for him though.  You see, as much of an escapist as he truly is, he likes being caught up every once in a while, especially when he is being caught in the net of one of the most beautiful creatures he has ever seen.

She likes to take the lead, and he doesn't mind it at all as long as she is able to listen to his ideas.  See she is quite a bit more actual than he will ever be, and he is a lot more abstract.  He will enjoy watching her balance everything that she gets thrown at.  He can learn from this, seeing that he usually just swims past things that doesn't feed his interest.  He finds her feminine exterior and masculine thought process so fascinating, that is causes a frenzy inside his dream filled head.  How can someone be so insanely intriguing?

She will usually have the last word when it comes to arguments, but he really doesn't mind so much.  He is incredibly patient, and insanely attracted to her which gives her a freedom to really be herself in a lot of ways.  It doesn't always make sense to them why they make it work, but love is an abstract concept that cannot be explained by anyone other than the two that are in it.

This woman always starts as an airy sweet little girl, and tends to mature into a harder version of herself as she journeys through life.  There is something about him that makes her feel youthful and softer again.  He tends to heal her pains of the pasts with telling her to look forward to the dreams of the future.  If anyone can connect her two personas together, and bring her to happy tears it will be him.

One problem area that they will face is indecisiveness.  Both male and female Libras are VERY indecisive.  They really don't mean to be, they just see everything from so many different angles and want to make the most fair and logical decision.  Pisces don't like to make direct decisions either, because they prefer to just swim dreamily through life without really putting too much effort into things unless absolutely necessary.  When they do make hard decisions, they base it on whatever their emotions are telling them.  So imagining these two together trying to make a tough choice you can imagine how this could make for quite the shit show.  Someone is going to have to pull the trigger on things whether they like it or not, and it will either be her logic or his gut feeling.  See the dilemma?

All he has to do to smooth things over with her is whisper his sweet mysticism in her ear, and her troubles will melt away.  His gentleness is something that she has never experienced, and is so healing.  Her voice is something that he had only heard in dreams, even when she is bossing him around he just cracks a smile because he can see the whole her all at one time.  He is powerfully attracted to this beautiful airy woman.  He dreams of sailing away with her on her pink cloud.  She will be enchanted by his dreamy aura.  Together their sex will be something out of a pastel rainbow dream.  For them to stay together, they will need to make their dreams into a beautiful reality.

If he is able to follow her Cardinal lead, and she is able to listen to his sweet emotional wisdom these two can have it all. There is a perfect quote to end this post and it goes as such;

Her: A fish may love a bird, but where would they live?
Him: I shall just have to build myself wings!


Porte A Vie - Sextrology - Leo

Better bow down my friend, because you are in the presence of true royalty. This is not a woman for the faint of heart, because she oozes sex appeal.  She is strong, powerful, and magnetic.  She shines like the golden Sun, and she wants to hear about it too. 


Sagittarius Woman - Virgo Man

This man treasures his loner life existence.  He is after all the bachelor of the Zodiac.  However, when he meets this Sagittarius woman, he seems to willingly give up pieces of his bachelor life he never saw coming.  He is first attracted to her bright aura, and chatty wit.  She always has a thing or two to say, but being that he is a mutable sign like her he will always have a comeback or two.  I can see it now, the two of them meeting for the first time through mutual friends.  She of course is making hilarious remarks, and he has something intelligent to say back.  The difference between their banter is she doesn't think before speaking, and he sure as hell does.  Surprisingly, she loves that he always has a remark, and he loves that even though she blurts everything out that is is usually hilarious and backed by good intentions.  She loves that he can be both firm yet sweet all at the same time.  She needs that.  He can teach her how to soften her tongue, and she can teach him to look at the world through her rose colored glasses.  She is not always the most easy creature to figure out, but he can see right through her naive nature to the beautiful woman she is.  This will always keep him coming back for more.

Let us not forget though that these two are square to one another.  This makes their relationship more challenging at times than most.  This woman is known for being punny and funny.  She also loves to play jokes on people.  There is nothing more satisfying to a Sag than to successfully pull off a good prank.  The Virgo man is somewhat of a serious creature at times, and he doesn't necessarily appreciate her always being a goofball.  Don't get me wrong, he has a sense of humor a good one at that.  He just believes that there is a time and a place for everything.  She doesn't always have the perceptiveness to pick up when that time may be.  He is also somewhat of a neat freak in some way or anther which I talked about in a previous post.  She is not exactly the epitome of tidiness.  Her mind has bigger fish to fry than taking a toothbrush to tile.  She is a free spirit.  Always has been, always will be.  If they are going to cohabitate, hiring a cleaning person would be worth it rather than squabbling.

She is a masculine Fire sign and he is a feminine Earth sign.  He is no wimp by any means, but one thing she will need to remember is to let him be the man.  If they can find a way to balance their energy, she will see that he loves her for all of her attributes AND flaws.  He can sooth her in a way to where she forgets her painful past.  There is something about looking into a Virgo mans clear eyes that puts a sense of safety and security into your soul.  This is something that she has needed for a long time.  There is rarely a promise that this man doesn't keep.

You may look at these two and wonder how they work, but as different as they are there is something uncannily similar.  You see, she is a creature that is not easy to capture, and he is looking for a love that may not really exist.  Somewhere these two meet in the middle of all of that and find each other.  They are both so honest which is something that is not so easy to come by.

In the bedroom she is as fiery as ever.  He takes more of a cool, grounded, and sensual approach.  They again can both teach each other things about oneness that the other never knew.  If she does not understand that he needs to be the man, and that sex is more than just passion he may grow weary.  He loves to simplify his life as much as possible, but he also needs to learn how to lighten up.  In the bedroom he will enjoy her sense of adventure, and she will enjoy when they are finished and cuddling with one another that he kisses her so sweetly on the forehead.  It may melt her heart so much, that a tear of pure joy runs down her cheek.  She needs this solidity and sweetness.  It fulfills her.  I don't want you to think that he is a prude, he has many dimensions.  You see, this relationship is all about meeting each other halfway.  Compromise is important in every relationship, but especially important in this one.

He will find himself telling her things he never thought he would tell anyone, but she never judges.  She never analyzes things so sternly as he does.  She is his breath of fresh air.  They both are intelligent in different ways, and they both have a lifetime of learning from one another.


Porte A Vie - Sextrology - Taurus

Taurus is everything that the word sensual encompasses.  She is carnal, physical, and bodily.  She focuses on the senses as her way of arousal....


Porte A Vie - Sextrology - Aries

Having sex with this woman is like taking a shot of cinnamon whiskey; it’s sweet and hot, and makes you want to come back for more.