Porte A Vie - Sextrology - Virgo


Well ladies and gents, we are officially in Virgo Season!  Virgos are known to be cool, analytical, and a little critical.  You may think that this virginal angel isn't much in the boudoir, but you are oh so very wrong.  Find out how this lady gets down in this months Sextrology post...



:::QUIZ::: How Much Do You Know About Astrology?


A huge part of why I started my blog was so that I could educate people on Astrology.  I have learned so much about myself and others from my studies, and it is a true passion of mine.  I feel like others should know more about seeing that I believe it can help in both your personal and professional life.  My blog is jam packed with information, and it's time to see how much you have learned.  As you can see, there are links to a post that contains the answer to the questions.  Try to do the quiz without looking to see how your Astrology knowledge really is!  This will be a fun way to refresh your memory, as well as learning new things too.  Let me know how you guys do!

1. Which Sun Sign is ruled by the Moon?
a) Scorpio
b) Pisces
c) Cancer

2. Which Sun Sign is related with the color red?
a) Aries
b) Sagittarius
c) Leo

3. Which Sun Sign rules the feet?
a) Gemini
b) Taurus
c) Pisces

4. Which Sun Sign is associated with the butterfly?
a) Aquarius
b) Gemini
c) Libra

5. Which Sun Sign is known for their intense stare?
a) Virgo
b) Aquarius
c) Scorpio

6.Which Sun Sign is known as a Cardinal Sign (Leaders of the Zodiac)?
a) Leo
b) Libra
c) Sagittarius

7. Which one of these Sun Sign's glyph (symbol) is an arrow?
a) Scorpio
b) Sagittarius
c) Capricorn

8. Which of these Sun Signs is known to be the clean freaks?
a) Sagittarius
b) Virgo
c) Libra

9. Which of these Sun Sign's element is an Earth Sign?
a) Cancer
b) Aries
c) Capricorn

10. Which one of these Sun Signs is known to be the royalty of the Zodiac?
a) Leo
b) Libra
c) Virgo

11. Which of these Sun Signs is known for their patience?
a) Taurus
b) Aries
c) Gemini

12. Which one of these Sun Signs is known for being the humanitarian of the group?
a) Aquarius
b) Leo
c) Capricorn




Hot Summer Songs of 2014

The summer of 2014 has blessed us with a lot of great new artists, and a lot of fun hits.  I was surprised while doing some research to see how many of them have different Sun Signs which is what compelled me to write a post.  I think we will be seeing a lot more from all of these extremely talented artists in the future. If you want to jam to the playlist of all of the songs listed below on Spotify, CLICK HERE.

Aries
Artist: Kid Ink
Birthday: April 1, 1986
Hot Summer Song: Show Me

Taurus
Artist: Sam Smith
Birthday: May 19, 1992
Hot Summer Song: Stay With Me

Gemini
Artist: Iggy Azalea
Birthday: June 7, 1990
Hot Summer Song:  Fancy

Cancer
Artist: Ariana Grande
Birthday: June 26, 1993
Hot Summer Song: Problem

Leo
Artist: Charli XCX
Birthday: August 2, 1992
Hot Summer Song: Boom Clap

Virgo
Artist: Clean Bandit
Birthday: Not Sure, but they sound something like a Virgo would like.  Plus they have the word "clean" in their name - perfect!
Hot Summer Song: Rather Be

Libra
Artist: Bastille (Will Farquarson)
Birthday: September 22,1983
Hot Summer Song: Pompeii

Scorpio
Artist: Tove Lo
Birthday: October 29, 1987
Hot Summer Song: Stay High

Sagittarius
Artist: Sia
Birthday: December 18, 1975
Hot Summer Song: Chandelier

Capricorn
Artist: Meghan Trainor
Birthday: December 22, 1993
Hot Summer Song: All About That Bass

Aquarius
Artist: Tinashe
Birthday: February 6, 1993
Hot Summer Song: 2 On

Pisces
Artist: Magic! (Nasri Atweh)
Birthday: March 6, 1981
Hot Summer Song: Rude




Gemini Woman - Scorpio Man


Let me just start out by saying this is not an easy match, but it can be done.  It's always two against one, and Scorpio likes to have more of the players on his side, so you can see how this can get tricky.  This will take effort and respect from all parties.  Gemini is scared by anything that may lock her free soul down, and Scorpio likes things to be promised.  In Scorpio's world promises are always meant to be kept, but with Gemini the change of the wind can bring out the other twin who made no such promise.  His intensity and permanency will probably scare the pants off of her at first, but there is something mysterious about this man that she will want to get to understand.

She will be late for many of their dates, but he will love her intellectual charm so he will let it go.  Her story will change every day and interrupt him frequently, but she is so sweet and her smile is so bright that he lets it go.  She will love his deep voice, his intense stare, and silent strength.  Little does she know she is his prey.  Once a Scorpio man decides he wants you for keeps, you have little chance of escaping.  This sounds terrifying to a Gemini, but she won't do much to stop it from happening.

Now that they need to learn to stay together; a task much more difficult.  It will drive her insane that he wants to know where she is and what she is doing on a regular basis.  She will make him think she is flaky with her ever changing mind about what she wants to do, and who she wants to be.  She doesn't have even close to the same amount of self control as this man does.  That's just not her.  She just needs to know the basics, and he wants to understand things to the core.  He will have many lessons he wants to teach her that she will have no interest in knowing.  They will drive each other a little crazy.

For a Scorpio man to be truly faithful, the woman that he is with must fulfill him sexually.  That may sound unfair or chauvinistic, but with a Scorpio it is not.  You see, Scorpios see sex as a way to connect spiritually with the person that they are with.  It is not a pastime, or a game that they play.  It is much deeper than that.  So when the connection is not being made with him it becomes a problem of them not feeling close to the one they love.  A Gemini woman does not look at sex like this at all.  In fact she is probably laughing at what I just wrote.  See to her, true connection is through the mind and through conversation.  Here is my question; why can't they meet halfway?  I believe that they can.  It will take effort, and like I mentioned before, respect.

She is intelligent to know how to fix things when they are broken, and he is intuitive enough to feel how to make things right.  They have to WANT to do so.  Love can conquer all, and they may just be the couple to prove that.



2014 Fall Trends for Your Sun Sign

So I’m not going to lie, I am not a huge fan of all of the fashion trends coming this year for fall.  I LOVED last year’s burgundy and leather trend – hello I’m a Scorpio – but I know a lot of you will be loving the funky bright change from the typical dark fall trends we have seen in the past.  Getting a few, or all, of these statement pieces will keep you up to date on the latest fashion.  I paired each trend with your sign to give you a good direction on something you may want to add to your closet.


Aries
Slouchy Wide Leg Pant
Aries will love these comfortable, bold, and relaxed pants.  They hide all the problem areas, while still looking effortlessly fashionable.  You can highlight your waist by tucking a fun red blouse into them for a more polished look.  You will definitely stand out among all of the skinny jeans everyone is wearing.
Taurus
Robe Coats
Fall is bringing the house wear outside with these tie at the waist robe coats.  Who knew Hugh Hefner was such a style icon?  We all know Taurus loves the way things feel, because the tangible is so important to them.  They like being comfy, and what is comfier than being able to wear your bathrobe out of the house?
Gemini
Dress Over Pants
Can’t decide between wearing a dress or slacks?  Well decide no more; now you can wear both.  This flirty and forward fashion statement can only be pulled off by a Gemini.
Cancer
Wool Knits
You will be in heaven this fall my cozy Cancers.  Oversized and super warm knits are super in style.  You can cozy up with your family, puppy, and a hot cup of cocoa by the fire all while still being on trend.
Leo
Big Funky Fur Coats
Leo will love this wild and bold fashion statement.  You will be able to show your mane off with one of these bright and warm coats.  No one will miss you walking down the street in one of these, and that’s just how you like it.  
Virgo
Long Vest
These sharply tailored vests are perfect for the office.  You can wear them buttoned up or belted, as well as wearing a coat over them for another layer.  They are smart and sharp, just the way Virgo likes it.

Libra
A-Line Dresses
These flirty and feminine dresses are perfect for everyone.  They are balanced, and classy which Libra will love.  They can be paired with a leather knee high boot for edge giving that soft and hard contrast that Libra lives for.
Scorpio

Thigh Slit
This super sexy trend is perfect for Scorpio.  Highlight your legs with some super stylish stockings, or none at all.  Slits are the new crop tops, and Scorpio couldn’t be happier about it.

Sagittarius
Western
YeeHaw cowgirl.  This is soooo in your element.  This usually casual trend is in higher fashion gear this year.  The big hat is everything, and Sagittarius is loving it.  The bigger the better.  These women make farm life look really effortless.

Capricorn
Norse
Grab your grandma Olga’s sweater, because it’s trending.  Grab a big glass of wine, with your chunky Norse print, on a leather couch and you have got this fall down.  Capricorn’s are winter babies, so Winter is so in their element.  Maybe this trend was brought on by the Disney hit Frozen.  Do you think we need to, “let it go?”

Aquarius
Trippy Psychedelic
This season could literally not get any better for my Aquarius ladies out there.  This is SO your year for Fall trends.  Between the very bright colors, and the funky fashions you are in your element.  Geometric prints, multicolored mashups, and swirly fur is HUGE

Pisces
60’s Swag
The 60’s are back which makes Pisces one happy fish.  Pisces loves reminiscing on the past, so this trend will suit their femininity very well.  Skirts, retro prints, and knee high boots are all the rave.  Pisces will not feel like a fish out of water wearing when it comes to this trend.

*** All photos are from Elle Magazine and Rachel Zoe


Capricorn Woman - Virgo Man


Listen here my Capricorn ladies.... Don't try to change him, and don't pressure him into marriage.  Good, I am glad I got that out of the way.  Let's proceed... 

The Virgo man is not one that is afraid of commitment by any means.  What he is afraid of is losing his freedom.  If she can make him feel free in a commitment they will be doing great.  What he needs to realize that what is in front of him is a strong and solid woman that would make him very happy if he could let go of all of his fear and anxiety.  They are after all a wonderful and very harmonious Earth Sign match.  He will love how flawlessly beautiful she is, and she will love how he always has a plan.  Capricorns love plans.  She is a very ambitious woman herself.  If she makes her Virgo man her only plan and ambition is where the problems start to occur.  However, but rarely, it can be the other way around.  The Virgo will want marriage and her priority and plans will be surrounding her career, and not a family leaving Virgo in the dust.

She will have great judgement which is what leads her to her Virgo man in the first place.  Generally their relationship is filled with a lot of love that will eventually lead to permanency.  They will have a love that is very stable once they get to a place they are both happy in with one another.  He won't mind her having her own career and goals, in fact he will prefer it this way.  This will make them one hell of a power couple.  He will love watch her climb the corporate ladder, or create her own business from scratch.  Capricorns are incredible workers you see that thoroughly enjoy being the boss.  He will love that she is her own person so that he can be his own person as well.


They will find a lot of peace and beauty in their sex life.  They are powerfully in tuned, and magnetically one with each other in ways only Earth Signs can really understand.  They will only grow closer and stronger the longer they stay together, making themselves an unbreakable bond with one another.  It is not a bond that they go shouting on the rooftops about.  It is rather one of quiet appreciation.  It is as though they have known each other for years even though they have maybe only been together for a short time.  They will start syncing with one another simultaneously.  This will also be applicable for their sex life as well.

If these two ever do separate, it will usually be for career, power, ambition, or money.  What they may not realize at the time of parting is that they are making a huge mistake.  They are both stubborn so they may never admit to their fault, but they will always feel it.  That's why it is not smart for these two to only look at the present, but far into the future as well.  Understanding that their quiet oneness is so much more suited for both of them than the exhausting, loud, and tiresome single life is imperative.  They must always cherish the familiarity, the reassurance, the stability, the intimacy, and the way they just KNOW each other. That's when you hit the real jackpot in life.



Sagittarius Woman - Gemini Man




 The Sagittarius woman is notorious for wearing her heart on her sleeve.  She goes into every relationship wishing, and hoping, and praying for the best while diving in head first.  She is refreshingly frank and honest about everything.  It can be surprising at times, yet very touching.  Geminis are clever and quite witty.  He will easily be able to manipulate her heart, and by doing so can win this incredible woman or destroy her.  He will scar her if he plays with her heart so foolishly, and as they say, karma is one hell of a bitch.  Take that as a warning.

She is warm, fun, and openhearted.  She longs so deeply for someone to keep her safe.  What she needs to understand about this witty man she has fallen for is that there are two or more sides to him.  It is hard to tell what he wants at times, hell he doesn't even know himself most days.  His boyish charm will love to play hide and seek with you.  When one of the twins upsets you, the other one will show up the next day with a hand full of wildflowers to kiss away your tears.  The on again off again romance will not suit her at all.  He will convince her that she is the one with the problem.  The thing is, is that neither one of them has a problem; they need to learn how to compromise and blend to create harmony.  

If this Gemini man can slow his role and really look what is in front of him, he will find true love and magic in this relationship.  These two are on the opposite ends of the karmic wheel.  That means they are opposites, and opposites naturally attract to one another.  There will be a draw that they have on one another that is at times inexplicable.  They each have what the other one lacks.  They will meet on a warm summers night under a full moon at a music festival, and from there will be either a fairytale romance or a painful relationship to learn from. It's all about timing, and all up to them to make it work.  

They both have a naturally free spirited soul, and there is a part to each of them that will never truly age.  They will let one another have enough space to be able to obtain all of their goals in life.  They love being around people, even while together.  Crowds are both of their thing.  This can cause some cases of jealousy between them unfortunately.  They are both curious and changeable people who attract people to them with ease.  He is more curious than she is in this case.  He is like quicksilver in that he is so hard to hold on to.  He slips through your fingers in an instance. 

Their sex will be something to heal most of their differences. There is a very strong attraction that they have to one another.  They are fully aware of the meaning of makeup sex, seeing that they use it frequently to mend their relationships after their sometimes verbally intense squabbles.   The real passion that they will have them is the one of their minds.  Both of them are Mutable Signs, which means they are both incredible communicators.  These two could stay awake talking about anything and everything until the sun came up. 

Between his sarcasm and her honesty, they make for one hilarious duo. I have compared this man to Peter Pan many times before; so youthful and always chasing his shadow.  If you want to stay with this man Sagittarius, you are going to have to go along chasing it with him.  This woman is smart, all you need to do is listen to your heart.