How to Lose an Aries Guy in 10 Ways

I get A LOT of emails from my amazing SSS readers about breakups and relationship advice.  One of my favorite romantic comedies is "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days"; so I thought this would be a fun way to really learn about what drives each of these unique signs bananas.  This series will be great for when you first start dating a guy to learn how to really appeal to him.  Remember to NEVER change who you are for anyone, but I hope this answers a lot of your questions and gives you a little advice all at the same time.

Just always remember that you deserve a man that wants to be with you, not one who acts like he's doing a favor by returning your call.  If you have to remind him that you are alive and interested, let him go.  He doesn't deserve you.  Just remember that you attract the love that you think that you deserve.  So set your bar high xo

1. Not enough sex - The Aries man LOVES sex, he is a fire sign after all.  Sex is important to him because he has a lot of energy that he needs to use, and this is a way to feel close and have fun with you.  Withholding sex with this guy will drive him away.

2. You always want to be in control - He likes to be the man in the relationship.  He doesn't need his woman controlling his every move.  This guys is masculine, and likes to stay that way.

3.  Being a prude - He is fiery and fun.  If you dull his fire, he will be on the run.

4. Not apologetic - This man is a big baby.  He also has a very hard time admitting he is wrong.  Be the bigger person, and apologize first.  He will be back in your arms in no time.

5. Pursue him - This man doesn't need to be pursued.  If he isn't after you, he doesn't want you.  He is not one to play games or hide how he feels.

6. Not enough attention - This man loves to be swooned over.  Like I said, he is a big baby.  He loves when things are all about him.

7. Flirt with other guys - This man is jealous, and will not have the apple of his eye flirting with other guys.  That is a quick way to see his short temper flare.

8.  He isn't stable in his career - This man's career is very important to him.  If he isn't sure or stable of his future, he most likely is not ready for a serious relationship.

9. Embarrass him - If you embarrass him in front of people you will surely be playing with fire.  This mans man is not about being made to look like a fool in front of anyone.

10. You kiss his ass too much - He likes playful push back.  He is a string personality that needs someone to keep him in line every once in a while.


  1. haha my relationship with an aries was my worst ever. A scorpio giving up control and apologizing first? Never.

  2. my boyfriend is an aries... and so am i. makes it pretty interesting sometimes. we're both too stubborn for our own good.

  3. Omg this is spot on! My husband is an Aries, and I am definitely learning some of these things