The Aries Child

This baby is going to be the boss from day one.  How dare you spend any of your attention on anything but them?  There is not a subtle bone in this child's body.  They will be very direct in their actions; if they don't like food you give them they will spit it out or spit it at you and then giggle about it.  They like to do things faster than most babies too.  They will be quick to crawl, walk, and talk.  They may just skip the whole crawling phase altogether so they can get around a lot faster.  Baby proofing is going to be essential with this child.  Teething will be really bad, so make sure to stock up on the cold gummies for them.  If you tell an Aries baby no, they will say it right back to you and do it anyways.  Headstrong is an understatement.

The older they get you will see how truly affectionate they are.  This child will always be hugging and kissing.  As soon as they are done with that they will be throwing a tantrum, but then win you over with their big smile.  There is rarely a dull moment.  They pretty good sharers, unless they don't like someone than forget about it.  You will have to warm the babysitter to stand their ground with your child no matter what.

Aries children have beautiful imaginations.  They are not a huge fan of schoolwork, because they would much rather be playing.  If they actually put their mind to something there will be nothing to stop them.  Finding a way to make homework fun will be crucial for good grades.  They will probably love reading, so stock these children up with lots of books.  They are natural born leaders being the head of their pack of friends.  Their hearts are as soft as they are strong, and they are as mean as they are nice, all wrapped up in a fiery little package.  People that pick on them will surely feel the Aries fire, but it will then be followed by tears.  Whenever they take a tumble in life, they will pick themselves right up and brush themselves off.  They are such spunky and strong creatures.

Holidays will be magical times for Aries babes.  They will love all the fairytale creatures that come with the holidays.  Let them believe in Santa for as long as possible, because they will believe fiercely.  You must hide presents well, seeing that they are quite impatient and may go looking. 

You will need to teach the Aries child how to make and KEEP their money.  They will love to spend their allowances.  Teaching them how to save is very important with this sign seeing that they are overly generous with material items.  These kids LOVE praise.  So giving it to them when they are deserving of it will go a long ways.  If the Aries kid isn't kept busy, they will get themselves in trouble.  Finding constructive hobbies and projects for them is key in their growth.

These children are magic, and will always believe in magic long after they are grown and gone.  If you gently lead them while letting them lead themselves at the same time, they will make the impossible happen in their lifetime making you one proud parent of such a strong, fierce, and bold individual. 

Libra Woman - Taurus Man

When you first meet these two you will assume he is the strong earthly grounded one, and that she is the feminine sweet and quiet one.  You are quite mistaken.  You can never be too sure about a Libra.  Their scales go up and down constantly balancing everything in their lives.  She is a sassy woman, and a natural born leader, and he is a lot more sensitive than you would ever assume.  He is definitely stubborn, but it is balanced by his sweetness.

He will really appreciate her strong yet feminine beauty.  There is something that is so airy yet rock solid about her.  Helpless to you, but pioneering in her own way.  She encompasses everything you didn't think was possible to be wrapped up in one human being. She is a mental sign that will talk out all of her decisions quite frequently.  He will try to find interest in everything she says, but sometimes it will lull him to sleep.  This will put her in a tizzy, but I promise you he doesn't mean any harm by his boredom.  He just makes the most practical decision there is to make, and that's the end of it.  It is so simple for him, yet so complicated for her.  This will make her upset at times, but he just needs to learn how to show that he cares by really listening to her.

They are very sexually attracted to one another.  They are both ruled by the romantic and sweet sign of Venus, who we all know is the planet of love.  She is sugary and lite when it comes to sex, and he is deep and sensual.  Together they will have wonderful togetherness.

He will really change things when he comes in her life for the better.  He will settle her mind, soothe her, and help her make good decisions that seemed so complicated before she met him.  He just makes her life make more sense all around.  His common sense is something she lacks at times.  In retrospect, her optimistic spirit will make him so much happier on a day to day basis.  All she has to do is flash him her dimpled smile, and he will start to turn his frown upside-down.  After she flutters around in her charming way, he will want to keep her forever.  He must remember that caged birds don't sing they cry, so he must always give her an element of freedom.

These two lovely signs will need slight adjustments here and there, but overall their beautiful auras will blend well.  He will be her teddy bear, and she will be his beautiful pink bird.  She will love his masculinity, and he will love her clear as a bell voice and intelligence.  They both manage each other with charm and tact.

Libra on the Cusp of Virgo: September 24-27

You are a Libra through and through, but you have that touch of Virgo perfection that glazes your personality ever so slightly.  You analyze situations a bit more than the average Libra would, but you are not harshly critical.  You handle things in a fair way with an analyzed approach.  You will love beauty, especially flowers.  Virgos love gardening, so when you mix that with Libra's love of beauty you get a person who will swoon over a dozen pink peonies. 

You like to work in groups so that you are able to lead like a Libra, but talk to others about your thoughts like a Virgo.  Libras are balanced, and Virgos spend a lot of attention on details that don't always matter.  Having your Libra to even those traits out will make you a beautiful blend of knowing when you have reached the end.  These people will make wonderful critics of movies, food, restaurants, etc.  This is because they have a true eye for beauty as well as having a touch of constructive criticism.

Being a Libra, you will steer clear of conflict, but you will be able to handle it with a level head.  You are all about harmony and pleasant. You are a wonderful balance of two truly beautiful signs.


Virgo on the Cusp of Libra: September 18 - 23

This will bring a lot of balance and harmony to the typical Virgo's uptight attitude. Don't get me wrong; you still have wonderful precision because you are a Virgo after all, but you are a little more flexible than most born under your Sun Sign.  This is a placement that makes the person fair and thoughtful.  You will work hard at everything you do, but if you don't get it perfect you won't totally freak out.  Your social life is a lot more lively, and put into importance than most Virgos; you just know how and when to let loose.  Most Virgos see things in a calculated way, but you are able to see the gray.

You love harmony, and will accomplish whatever it takes to get it in your life in any way possible.  Gardening and yoga are two great things that this placement will love.  There is rarely anyone with this placement that is self-absorbed or self-centered.  You will see this person caring for others often, and beautifully.  You don't care for a ton of compliments for what just comes to you naturally.  There is a wonderful humbleness about you.

You enjoy options like a Libra, and love to talk like a Virgo.  You are easy to like, and will find friends with no problems.  There is a loveliness mixed with a lot of self-discipline in this person.  There are quite a few musicians and artists with this placement because they have a wonderful precision mixed with great artistic taste.  There is a need to educate and interact with people on a day to day basis.  People will love to listen and learn from you.  You may even just change the world one day.   Your charismatic nature, and comfort with sparking up a conversation with anyone will make for a beautiful personality mix altogether.


Cancer Woman - Taurus Man

When he meets this mystical Moon child, he is in trouble; trouble in a good way.  This beautiful woman has a way of seeping into his soul so deep that he will be forever changed.  She will show him how to feel with all of his heart, which none before have really been able to do.  Many Cancer women I meet are just waiting for that right partner in life to reach her full potential.  Don't get me wrong; Cancer women are great alone, but it is innate in them to care for others.  They truly shine in that area.  Before she can get to that part she needs to find a stable and secure partner.  Taurus' middle name is stable.  He will turn all of her frightful dreams into a fairytale reality.

He likes things to go at a slow and steady pace.  He loves permanency, and so does she.  She will just have to let love grow naturally, and be patient with him.  It is not going to happen overnight, but it will happen.  He does not break down easily, but she does.  He will be a great rock and support to her through her lunar swings.  They also both have a wonderful sense of humor that will mesh well with one another.  These two have so much in common, but there is one thing that they do not; jealousy.  His jealousy can lead her into deep sad emotional states.  She may even snap her claws at him in rejection, but with compromise and understanding, this can be an easy fix.  Her clingy attitude will also drive him insane, but what they must see that jealousy and clingyness are similar.  Not the same, but similar, so they should be able to empathize with one another. 

She has a hard time telling him her feelings, but not great at hiding them.  If she could just let him know how much she needs him he would feel so much better, and secure.  She will try to make it up to him by baking him his favorite cupcakes, but he doesn't want cupcakes; he wants words of affirmation.  Then he wants the cupcakes. We all know how Taurus men love their food.

Sex with them is amazing.  It is sensual, sweet, and satisfying.  He can coax her right into his arms so smoothly she will wonder how she gets there at times.  There is something so personal about how they make love, and it makes her feel so special and safe.  He makes her feel wanted and needed, which is a wonderful way to feel.  His sincerity touches her way past her shell all the way to her soft soul.  In return she will admire him the way every man wants to be admired.  She will never leave him, give him a beautiful cozy home, and beautiful bouncing babies.  They can have it all.

Her moods are like the Moon; waxing and waning, but he has all the patience in the world for her because he knows she is worth it.  They always find their way back to each other, and it is not hard because their love is genuine.  Genuine love is not something you find everyday.

How to Lose a Pisces Guy in 10 Ways

1.You don't support his dreams - This man's dreams are his reality so supporting his entrepreneurial mind is very important to him.

2. You caught a fish - If you catch a fish, and not a whale you may want to catch him at a different time in life.  Finding the Pisces man at the right time in his life is at the utmost importance to the both of your happiness.

3. Hates art, concerts, music, and humanities - This man loves art in all forms.  If you don't really have any emotion towards art, you may have a hard time relating.

4. You are too available - This guy is quite emotional, so if you are too emotional and available to him, it will be a big turnoff.  He needs someone to be strong for him, and a backbone to the relationship.

5. Always wanting pity - He wants the pity, he doesn't have time to give you any.  This somber man doesn't need a Debby Downer, he wants some joyful light in his life.

6. No imagination - This man wants someone to dream, wish, and hope with him.  If you have little dreams of your own, how could you live in his world?

7. You are too realistic - He doesn't want someone raining on his parade.  He wants a woman who he can tell all of his over the top stories to that will make her swoon.

8. Can't handle his passive aggressiveness - When he is mad, you may see his passive aggressive comments come out.  Being the bigger person in the situation is always the best way to go.

9.  Staying dreamy - He lives in one fantasy for a while, and then creates a whole new one the next day.  If you don't make yourself part of his fantasies he will swim away.

10. You are not emotionally strong - He needs a woman that is strong in areas he is not.  He needs empathy, support, and total understanding.

How to Lose an Aquarius Guy in 10 Ways

1. You make him feel undignified - As wacky as this guy can be at times, he is smart and doesn't want you to make him feel anything less.

2. Make him compromise himself too much - He will wear funky clothes, and try new and unconventional things.  If you try to change his misunderstood behavior, he will become cold.

3. His friends dislike you - He has a lot of friends.  If they don't care for you it will make his life hell, because he really likes spending a ton of time with them.

4. Tell him how to live - He doesn't live life on ayone's timeline, especially the person he dates.  He definitely walks to the beat of his own drum. 

5. You need him to feel good about yourself - He wants a woman with confidence and a pair of cojones, but he also wants someone nurturing as well.  He wants a mix of both; making the girl of his dreams someone that is confident in who she is.

6. Pressure him into a title - This man does not respond well under pressure.  He will know when the right time is, as well as who the right person is for him.  He likes things to happen naturally.

7. You don't admire his quirks - If you don't adore all of his wacky hobbies and behavior, you may want someone a little more vanilla.

8. There is no friendship in your relationship - Aquarius men value friendship in every relationship more than any other quality.  He wants to date and marry his best friend.

9. Have no passions in life - He wants you to have your OWN hobbies, friends, and passions in life.  He will love to add all of your interests and friends to the list of his own which will intertwine you.

10. You don't have a humanitarian heart - This guy loves to help the greater good.  Get into doing community service together, and he will fall even deeper.

How to Lose a Capricorn Guy in 10 Ways

1. You have no plan for your life - The Capricorn man is all about a plan.  He himself has a plan for everything in his life.  If you are a mess, he may look for something a little more stable.

2. You are too strong to need him for anything - This man is a rock, and he likes to be leaned on.  Ask him for favors, and for advice.  He will love this, and it will make him feel like you need him as a man.

3. Say "no" too much - If you constantly knock this guy down, he will build his walls high around his heart making it impossible for you to get in.  Yes, he may seem a little cold at times but he is worth getting to know.  He will surprise you.

4. Too controlling - This guy is a solid man.  He doesn't need anyone controlling his time, his relationship, or him.  He will give you plenty of himself in good time.

5. Take his friends away from him - His friends mean a lot to him.  He values quality over quantity so the people in his life mean a lot.  Try to take those people away, and you will have on mad Sea Goat.

6.  You are disloyal - He is solid, and he wants you to be strong too.  He needs you to understand that behind his stone cold walls is a warm and beautiful heart.  If he feels like he cannot trust you, it will be a deal breaker. 

7. Get mad that he works too much - This guy loves to climb the ladder wherever he works.  He is very passionate about what he does, and doesn't want to be nagged about it.

8. You aren't patient - This man is very practical about things.  He isn't all fluff and romance.  If you aren't patient to get to really know him, it just won't happen.

9. Too competitive - If he feels like you are always competing with him he will get exhausted.  He wants a partner to climb the mountain with, not someone he is racing.

10. You are insecure - He needs a secure woman that understands love is more about showing than telling.  He may not write you sonnets of your beauty, but he will always be there right by your side.

How to Lose a Sagittarius Guy in 10 Ways

1. Too sensitive - This guy has a loose mouth, and loves to joke around.  If you take offense to things too easily you may not want to date this goofy guy.

2. You are a control freak - This guy is sporadically fun dude that loves adventure.  If you need to have control of every situation, you may be left in the dust.

3. Too trendy - He isn't big on name brands and the latest trends, so if you spend all your dollars on items and not experiences he may see you as shallow.  He wants an original.

4. Too high maintenance - He wants an effortless soul that isn't too concerned with what she looks like all the time.  A little stain on your shirt won't send you home to change.

5. You are boring - This guy is a wild free and educated spirit.  If you are a dull and don't have much to say, he will probably talk right over you.

6. Overly dependent on your family - If you need to constantly ask for money and approval of your family, it will probably turn him off.  This guy is mentally and financially free from restriction, and he doesn't want anything weighing his relationship down.

7. You hate traveling - This man has wanderlust running through his blood.  Once one of his adventures is over, he will be on planning the next one tomorrow.

8. Waste time - Time is the most precious thing in life, and he lives by that motto.  If you are one to laze around and not have any zealousness he will find someone that does.

9. You don't have a sense of humor - This guy is constantly cracking wild jokes.  Some of them will be about you.  If you can't handle that, he may not be the one for you.

10. You are way too predictable - This guy is always going to take the road less traveled.  He has a zest for life, and he also wants zest in his woman.  So spice it up girl!

How to Lose a Scorpio Guy in 10 Ways


1. Assume things about him - This man keeps a lot of himself under wraps.  There are things that will remain secret about him forever, so generalizing him with others is a big mistake.

2. Act trashy - This guy is demure and secretive.  He wants his partner to be sexy, but only for him.  This man is possessive, and doesn't want others googling at your goods.

3. Being wishy washy - This guy is black and white.  If he sees that you don't stand your ground on your beliefs he will look at you as being weak.

4.  Lie to him - This man is a human lie detector as well as being one hell of a detective.  Once trust is broken, he will be out.

5. Make him look bad in front of people - This guy is not the best at taking jokes.  Underneath all of his mystery is a sensitive spirit.  Embarrass him and feel the sting.

6. Leave during a disagreement - This will only make the problem worse than it already is.  He likes to resolve things as fast as possible.  His emotions are like a volcano, suppressed until brought on by a disturbance.

7. Uncomfortable with sex - This man is sex.  If you are uncomfortable with your body he will tell.  Sex is a religion and a spiritual act to Scorpio.  You have to understand this to really connect with him.

8. Pry at him - If he doesn't want to tell you something it is to help you, not to hurt you.  Do not pry at him, or he will anger.

9. Act like you are his mom - This man does not need another mother.  He has one, and that is plenty.

10. Play hard to get - This guy doesn't want a stage 5 clinger, but he also doesn't want to feel like you are unsure that you want him.  You are either in or you are out.

How to Lose a Libra Guy in 10 Ways


1. You don't appreciate his romance - The way that the Libra man shows his love is by spoiling, opening the door, and romantic gestures.  If you do not show appreciation to him for these things he will look for someone that does.

2.  You pressure him into commitment - This guy is pretty indecisive.  Yes, it will drive you insane but that's just how this guy is.  Giving him ultimatums will not help the situation at all.  Making him think it's his idea, and compromise are the way around this.

3. You are way too practical - This guy loves material items and the finer things in life; so if you are too practical with your dollars it will irritate him.

4. You are too loud all the time - This man's senses are sensitive, especially his ears.  If your voice is too loud or the music is turned up too high he could get fussy.

5. Too needy of attention - This guy will charm the pants off you, but he doesn't want a woman that needs his attention 24/7.  He wants a woman that wants him, but doesn't need him.

6. You act obnoxiously, and have no hygiene - A screeching wild banshee of a woman who wreaks of alcohol will send this man running.  He wants a classy poised woman who smells like vanilla with a touch of floral.  This guy is all about showing his lady off, so be worth bragging about.

7. You are not ladylike - If you show up on a date with chipped black nail polish, a baggy shirt, and flip flops he will notice.  Spend time on your appearance, and look put together because he sure as shit will be.

8. Arguing too much, and start unneeded fights - This guy wants a peaceful and relaxed environment.  If you are constantly picking fights with him he will have no problem leaving for greener pastures.

9.  You think that you are better than him - You don't want to completely fall for his charm, but you don't want to act like a stuck up bitch either.  This guy is going to want a solid balance of both. 

10. Dress skanky - This guy will not be impressed by a short leather skirts, and hooker heels with spikes on them.  If you wreak of sex appeal he will see you as too extreme.  He wants a feminine, classy, smart, balanced, and secure woman.  Secure women do not need to sell a man with their body.

How to Lose a Virgo Guy in 10 Ways

1. Have no sense of order - The Virgo man is all about keeping everything in line, so if you are a mess he will tend to react very critically.

2.  You are dirty - He likes to keep things clean, including your mouth.  If you curse like a sailor he will find you distasteful.  Keep your shirts pressed, and your mouth washed out with soap.

3. Make him feel like he is not needed - This man's sole existence is to feel needed by someone.  If you make him feel like you have it all on your own he may not feel like he has no role in your life.  Even if it's asking him to open a jar that you are perfectly capable of opening yourself; just ask him.

4. You take too much time apart from him - Once this bachelor of the zodiac really commits, he won't want long periods of time without you.  Many Virgos are even known to work with their mates.

5. Be wasteful - This man does not like to waste food, money, air, anything.  If you are a wasteful person, he will be displeased.

6. Take him for granted - If you complain about everything, he will start to feel defeated.  He tends to be very hard on himself so he will need to hear how amazing and wonderful he is from you.

7.  Boss him around too much - This guys has his stuff together 99.9% of the time, and doesn't need someone telling him what to do.  He wants a stable and supportive partner.

8. Criticize him constantly - This man is quite critical in general, and he is also his own biggest critic.  This means he doesn't need you to be hard on him as well.  Be positive, and boost him up; it will go a very long way.

9. You have too many bad habits - This man is quite particular on just about everything in his life.  He will be forgiving of a few quirks here and there, but if you are hot mess it will be too much for him to handle.

10. You do not seem like you will be faithful - Once this man has chosen you as his Cinderella, he will want true loyalty.  Virgos only have one true love of their life so don't screw it up by screwing around.

How to Lose a Leo Guy in 10 Ways

1. Dress casually all the time - This man is a king, and he wants to find his queen.  If you dress like a peasant without taking pride in yourself, he may move on.

2. Too easy - He is a lion that likes to work for his dinner.  If you make yourself too easy to obtain he will think that just anyone can have you, and he is not just anyone.

3. Be a homebody - This man loves attention and adoration.  It is hard to get those things at home alone.  He loves to be in the center of the action, so get your butt off the couch.

4. Upstage him - This man likes to be the head of the pack, as well as the center of attention.  Make sure you aren't dimming his light by constantly trying to be better than him.

5. Embarrass him - This man is prideful, so if you hurt that you will hear him roar.

6. Embarrass yourself - He wants to date a queen, and wants the class that comes with it.  If you act like a joker he will find someone else to court.

7.You make more money than him, and bring it up all the time - He likes to be the provider, and if you are constantly emasculating him by reminding him that you make more gold he won't be able to hang around long.

8. You are not sexually confident - This Lion is like tropic thunder in the bedroom.  He wants someone that is confident in the sack to have fun with.

9. Not supportive of his dreams and career - This man has a big plan, and he wants you to be along for the ride.  He wants someone supportive to stand by his side. 

10. You are boring - The Leo man has a huge heart, and a huge personality.  You are going to have to keep up with his fiery bold aura.  What is a King without a Queen?

How to Lose a Cancer Guy in 10 Ways


1. You don't let him have his alone time - When the Cancer man wants to be alone, let him have his time.  He will tend to have cranky moods that can be frustrating.  He will come back, but if you try to resolve things before he is ready he will revert even further into his shell.

2. Criticize his feelings or emotions - This man is deeply emotional, and is very sensitive.  If you make fun of him for this, he will hide his true feelings from you.

3. Tell his secrets to others - This man is very secretive, and hides sides to him that not many get to see.  If he lets you in, and you turn around and blab he will be gone.

4.You are too hard - This man has a hard shell that covers his soft insides.  If he thinks you are too rough around the edges, he may assume you won't be sensitive towards him.

5. Not getting along with his mom - This man is a momma's boy!  If you don't get along with his mother, that will be a HUGE problem.

6.Tell him family isn't one of your priorities - This man has three priorities, and one of them is to have a family of his own one day.  If you aren't interested in that, you may want to hit the road.

7.You tell him what to do too much - Like a crab, this man moves sideways a lot more than he moves forward.  If you start telling him what to do a lot, he may very well retreat.

8. Refuse to do things he really wants to do with you - If he starts feeling comfortable enough to ask you to go on adventures and outings with you, do your best not to say no.  It takes a lot of courage for these guys to ask, so don't hurt his feelings!

9. Not laughing at his jokes - This guy's sense of humor is looney, but if you don't find him funny it will really hurt his sensitive ego. 

10. Giggle when he is being sentimental - If he shows you his sensitive side, don't make him feel uncomfortable when you start seeing it.  Embrace his romantic sweetness.

How to Lose a Gemini Guy in 10 Ways

1. Wanting him to "grow up" - I have referred to the Gemini man MANY times in my blog as Peter Pan, because he really is.  This is something you are either going to endure about him or not.  If you don't, get out because it is not going to change.

2.He doesn't feel a spark with you - This man loses interest in things very fast.  If he doesn't feel an interesting and hot spark, he will fly the coop.

3. Force him into consistency - This guy isn't made to be put into a category.  He is his own free spirited person.  He doesn't want to be chained down by a consistent schedule.

4.  Nagging him - This guy likes to live day by day, and lightly.  If you are constantly dimming his bright spirit, he will be forced to leave.

5.You're too "sweet" - He wants funky, fun, and spirited.  He also needs someone to keep him in line in a refreshing way.  He is looking for a woman that gives him someone to depend on, while still feeling free. 

6. Let yourself go - He is always on the go.  If you seem lazy, or get lazy, he may fly right on past you.

7. You are not independent - Whether he is in a relationship or not, there is a piece of him that always needs to feel free.  To feel this in a relationship he will need to find a woman that has her own thing going on, and that is not too needy.

8. No similar interests - Every Gemini has multiple interests to please their twins different hobbies.  If you don't find any mutual things to do, you will find yourself lonely and without him quite often.

9. Being a pushover - This man needs a woman who is strong, without being controlling.  He is a lot like quicksilver; if you cup him gently in your hand you will see how beautiful he is, but if you hold on too tight he will slip right through your fingers.

10. You aren't the brightest crayon in the box - This man is really intelligent, and knows how to use his words.  If you can't keep up in a conversation he will get bored very easily.

How to Lose a Taurus Guy in 10 Ways

1.You get him really angry - To get this guy angry takes A LOT.  If you are upsetting him in an extreme way frequently, I would really worry about your overall compatibility.

2. Being irresponsible - This man is all about stability.  If you are an irresponsible person it will drive him crazy.  He likes someone that has it together.

3. Being tacky - This man is soft, sensual, and simple.  Being over the top, and tacky with the way you behave or dress is something he will not appreciate.  He wants classy.

4. Eating a salad on a date - This man experiences everything with his senses.  He is a very tangible person.  He wants to enjoy experiences with you, and ordering a salad at his favorite restaurant will not sit well with him.

5. You try to change him - He is STUBBORN!  If you try to change him you will feel his heels dig right into the ground.  Accept him for who he is, because it isn't going to change.

6. Having no common sense - This man values common sense over intelligence.  If you act like an airhead he will be running for the hills.

7. Having a distasteful house - He loves the way things feel and smell and look.  If your house has fake flowers, smells like a dump, and unframed photos taped to the wall; he won't look at you as wife material.

8. Rushing him - This man is slow, steady, and patient.  He does not need to be rushed, because if you are the one he will come up with a stable and steady plan for your future.

9. Wearing bright and scratchy clothes - He doesn't want to hug you and feel like he is touching a porcupine.  He enjoys soft cashmere, and a soft feminine woman.

10.Spending too much - He loves his dollars as much as a kid loves candy.  If he feels like you would spend all of his hard earned money wastefully in a marriage, he may change his mind about anything long term with you.

How to Lose an Aries Guy in 10 Ways

1. Not enough sex - The Aries man LOVES sex, he is a fire sign after all.  Sex is important to him because he has a lot of energy that he needs to use, and this is a way to feel close and have fun with you.  Withholding sex with this guy will drive him away.

2. You always want to be in control - He likes to be the man in the relationship.  He doesn't need his woman controlling his every move.  This guys is masculine, and likes to stay that way.

3.  Being a prude - He is fiery and fun.  If you dull his fire, he will be on the run.

4. Not apologetic - This man is a big baby.  He also has a very hard time admitting he is wrong.  Be the bigger person, and apologize first.  He will be back in your arms in no time.

5. Pursue him - This man doesn't need to be pursued.  If he isn't after you, he doesn't want you.  He is not one to play games or hide how he feels.

6. Not enough attention - This man loves to be swooned over.  Like I said, he is a big baby.  He loves when things are all about him.

7. Flirt with other guys - This man is jealous, and will not have the apple of his eye flirting with other guys.  That is a quick way to see his short temper flare.

8.  He isn't stable in his career - This man's career is very important to him.  If he isn't sure or stable of his future, he most likely is not ready for a serious relationship.

9. Embarrass him - If you embarrass him in front of people you will surely be playing with fire.  This mans man is not about being made to look like a fool in front of anyone.

10. You kiss his ass too much - He likes playful push back.  He is a string personality that needs someone to keep him in line every once in a while.