These two both have an intense character. Whether one is quiet and the other is not, they are both in some way intense. Actually, there is not much that these two are causal about. Scorpios usually unite, part, and reconcile for keeps. Very rarely do they do anything that is ever temporary. This is because they are both Fixed Signs. Scorpios will rarely make changes in their relationship. If for some crazy reason they do, it will be permanent as well. Once a Scorpio gets stung by another Scorpio they will not want it to happen again. To avoid this altogether, they move very slowly in the beginning with one another. Let me actually rephrase that. The physical side may move very fast considering they will both be sexually drawn towards one another, but they will very cautiously give their hearts away.
In addition to ruling childbirth Scorpio also rules death, and the transition into another life. Because of this, it will not be an uncommon thing for them to talk about death at all. They may have different ideas of what death and religion are, but they do not feel that the topic is morbid as some other signs most definitely would. Something that will also bond these two is religion and sex. I know that it is terrible that I used those two words in the same sentence, but for Scorpio sex is a spiritual and holy experience. There is something undeniably haunting about the way these two create oneness with each other. If you have ever had sex with a Scorpio you will know what I am talking about. They have a way of connecting their hearts, souls, and minds while making love. They are both sensitive and deep, and sex is a way for them to fill those voids. This bond will make them inseparable.
One of the most dangerous things about combining these two powerful people is their need to get even when they get hurt. They are both intensely secretive, and like to keep their matters as private as possible. This can make them tend to hide true feeling that should be shared, because they have a false pride and do not want to become vulnerable. It is really unfortunate because it can lead to a lot of misunderstandings which can lead to a vicious circle that will eventually push them apart. They will want to reconcile, but they are both too prideful to ever admit it which is an absolute shame. Even if they happen to split, a piece of them will always want the other. They can even
telekinetically speak to one another when apart, like most water signs can. Isn't that just sad and unnecessary though?
There is actually a Scorpio guy in my life right now that boggles my mind. I will think that I have him all figured out, and then he's off doing the next confusing thing. I can't figure out if it is because he is holding back, or if it's because he doesn't care, or if he is just truly complacent. He is definitely complex, but there is something about him that draws me to him. My friends don't understand it at all, but it makes perfect sense to me. He is dark, mysterious, and every once in a blue moon he will let me in and tell me something personal. It's like reading a mystery novel where you slowly get clues but where you just want to know the ending so bad. However, you know have to slowly read the entire book to fully understand the mystery. There's a mutual understanding that we have with one another without having to say a word. It's a strange, confusing, yet addicting. Maybe I am just as confusing to him as he is to me? Who knows. I also have another Scorpio man that I've known for 12 years. He was my best friend growing up. We still talk to this day, and it is my longest friendship that I have ever had (Scorpios connect for keeps).
The trick with a Scorpio Scorpio match is to be able to trust one another with your heart. I know that is a scary thought for this independent soul, but in the end the fear is worth the reward. Remember that there is no loyalty and protection like that of a Scorpios. Another imposed danger is faithfulness, alcohol, and drugs. They are both ridiculously suspicious of things that may not even exist. They can also become selfish when in a fight. Their negative traits are magnified by one another, but so are their good ones like courage, dependability, protectiveness, and passion. FORGIVENESS is key with these two lovers. You must learn to forgive one another.
Remember that Scorpios are not as controlled, detached and poised as they come off to be. It is such a bother to wear a mask all the time, and hopefully these two will learn how to take it off while they are around each other. When two Scorpios fall deep in love they will love each other wholly for each others imperfections and all. When they fight they will secretly ache for one another, and it will be hard for one of them to be the first to say, "I'm sorry, please come back", but it needs to happen. They have both practiced being independent for so long that the thought of emotionally depending on anyone scares them right out of their skin. Here's my advice to you - one Scorpio to another - put your grown up panties on and tell that person how much they mean to you. If you don't you could be missing out on one of the most deep and life changing relationships you will ever have.....
Too bad I'm horrible at taking my own advice.