Virgo Woman - Capricorn Man


The Virgo woman is anything but desperate to be in a relationship.  In fact, the idea of changing her entire lifestyle to fit someone else's sounds quite terrible to her.  She is much more comfortable being in a relationship that is looked highly upon by society, so marriage is something that's very important to her, but she feels like it is a duty to get married.  It feels a little pressured, the thought of marriage, but she is a Virgo.  She will always keep her feet on the ground and her temper cool.  Whenever this woman has a problem she usually hashes it out with herself which is why most Virgos you meet they bite their nails.  Their hamster wheel is ALWAYS going.  Laundry, work, children, sex, cleaning, dishes, cooking, fights with her husband... all of these things make them anxious especially the fighting part.  Virgos get very uncomfortable in fights.  It tends to make them nervous.  Even though Virgos are extremely clean and tidy, not every single one of them are made for homemaking.  Some Virgos believe that the idea of marriage is for the weak minded and that it is not all that its cracked up to be.  However, the idea of being alone and not being able to experience life's great adventure with someone makes her sad.  Even though you will never hear them say it out loud, they enjoy being needed. 

If the man that she is in love with is a Capricorn all of her analyzing is a waste of her time.  Nine times out of ten, this man will make her an extremely respectable wife.  Most Capricorn men want family life, and put great importance that his children are raised in the absolute best environment possible.  Another reason this Virgo lady will not be able to resist marriage with this man is by the power of the planets.  Both of them are Earth signs and are considered one of the best matches in the zodiac.  Don't get me wrong, they will still have to work on it like everyone else, but this will be natural and easy. 

When these two first meet there was without a doubt a karmic tug.  My Virgo friend and her Capricorn boyfriend have been together nearly four years now.  From the first day they meet, they haven't gone a day without speaking to one another.  Things happened fast with them, but it was not overwhelming because it was as though they had known each other all their lives.  That's just how it is with this match.  Their auras will just blend and lock, and they will just understand each other instantly. It is difficult to get these two apart.  About as hard as it is to untangle a knotted necklace because they communicate so beautifully, and truly enjoy being around one another. 

These two will go out, unless its a school or work night that is, but they prefer to stay at home with one another and work on a project or make love.  They enjoy both of those activities a lot.  When she is in this mans arms she loses all her worry, coolness and detaches from her inhibitions.  He feels similarly while with her.  Whenever she is securely against his chest he feels so deeply in love that it is almost overwhelming.  When two Earth signs get together its powerful, somewhat like an earthquake. 

I spoke earlier about Virgo women not always being the best homemakers... let me expand on that.  When a person hates living in disorder, they don't enjoy always having to keep things in perfect order.  It can be exhausting for these pristine characters.  Right after they mop the floors and wash the dishes and make the beds, someone is walking in the house with muddy shoes, or eating in the kitchen again, or jumping on the beds.  You see, all Virgos are perfectionists in one way or another.  My mother is an absolute picture perfect Virgo, and a prime example of this.  She used to say that after dinner the kitchen was closed, there were absolutely NO shoes allowed in our house, and she used to pick lint off of our carpet.  My father used to force us to do chores like cleaning the bathroom which was pointless because she would go right in after us and redo it.  We never did a good enough job.  My brothers and I always joke that we will put "Did Wash Your Hands?" on her gravestone.  Even though my mother is neurotic about her house, she doesn't enjoy housecleaning.  If everything could just stay perfect without her ever having to touch a mop or a broom again, her dreams would come true.  Kind of strange, but that's just how Virgo women are. 

You wouldn't pin a Capricorn man as "sensitive", but with her he really is.  He understands and is patient with her neurotic behavior.  He understands her critical nature because he is actually quite critical on himself as well.  He never comes out and says it nearly as much as she does, but deep down he is always thinking about ways to make himself a better man.  Capricorn men have some of the best work ethic I have ever seen.  They are climbers. 

I have made these two sound as though their relationship is perfect.  It is not.  These two earthly beings have their spats, usually because she is nagging him about something.  This man does not enjoy being nagged.  No man likes it, but this one especially.  Another reason is because this woman is always on the go.  If she's not reading something, she's working out.  If she's not working out, she's cleaning.  If she's not cleaning, she wants to have a conversation about the latest thing she learned in the book she's reading.  Remember what I said earlier about her hamster?  He likes to either be going 100% or resting 100%.  He's not lazy, that's just how he does things.  One thing that she may get irritated with is his "me first" attitude.  She may even break things off with him because of this, but these two can't stay away from each other long.  She will miss the way she feels in his arms, his gruff sense of humor, and even his grumpy moods. 

After these two quarrel all she wants is to lay with him in bed, with her head on his chest and listen to the rain softly fall on the roof.  She remembers how much she loves being his.  She closes her eyes and her rapid mind slows.  She even forgets about that dirty dish in the sink.



34 comments:

  1. I could relate a lot to the things you said :)

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  2. Omg wow this virgo is so me. I started to think is this one of my friends wrighting about .

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  3. Oh my gosh! This is extremely accurate. Me and my boyfriend all the way.

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  4. Ummmm.. i do agree on many points but right now i don't know... we broke up a lot... he left me a month ago and i miss him every single day... =(

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  5. I agree with alot of it and the nagging is when he procrastinates and doesn't do his part...I can't do it all. Selfish to some extent yes he is and I do feel like he's everything but I know he feels the same. We broke up once and it lasted 10 minutes and he cheated so that made it very difficult. So much for Capricorns being loyal! Honestly I hate being portrayed as a lunatic.....US Virgos are very smart, sexy, beautiful women and we can handle our own....but cheating liars are tough regardless of sign and compatibility. Other than those issues we are good....children will make you put up with more than you know. Alos the negative and boredom with the capricorns at times is awful........too laid back for this virgo!

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    1. C if he would have messed around on me after we broke up and I got back with him I would have messed around on him right in his face so he can see it and by that I mean having a man in our bed so when he get off work he would of caught me. I know I would have been playing a dangerous game but oh well and by the way I am a Virgo also and I have a Capricorn man friend I call him he called me his sweetie pie or sweetheart I only see him 3 times a month or maybe once a month but since I like him so much I'm going to get used to that and when he do want to see me more than that in the future when we get closer he,s going to want to see me more than three times a month and he won't be able to cuz he's going to help me habit of just seeing him it's like having me train to only see him that length of time like training a puppy to use the paper. but he has to remember that the way he started the relationship and that's the way it's going to end up with me

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    2. C if he would have messed around on me after we broke up and I got back with him I would have messed around on him right in his face so he can see it and by that I mean having a man in our bed so when he get off work he would of caught me. I know I would have been playing a dangerous game but oh well and by the way I am a Virgo also and I have a Capricorn man friend I call him he called me his sweetie pie or sweetheart I only see him 3 times a month or maybe once a month but since I like him so much I'm going to get used to that and when he do want to see me more than that in the future when we get closer he,s going to want to see me more than three times a month and he won't be able to cuz he's going to help me habit of just seeing him it's like having me train to only see him that length of time like training a puppy to use the paper. but he has to remember that the way he started the relationship and that's the way it's going to end up with me

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  6. Im am dating a Capricorn man n im a Virgo woman...I been dating him for six months now..I fell in love with this man the first time I laid eyes on him...we talk every day...but its been some bumpy roads but it seems to work it self out..we are mad right today again because like you say. Its hard for him to say that he loves me back..but all that matters is that he comes around...I feel it in my heart that he does but we really want things to be right..I been so heart broken in my padt relationship. ..but this man is very different he makes me laugh as well I do for him...its like we are meant to be...I cant stop thinking of him...every day and every night...I text him he text me we both say gm an also gn...which is very important to me...I love this man very much and hope one day we will be togethet ad one...we both has our own..he lives by himself with his two boys and I live by myself with my two girls...I have four kids but three are grown my daughter that lives with me.turn 21 and my other one is 16...so now it feels that they are getting out tge way its time for my life to began...this has be a roller coater for me..I meet this wonderful msn this year and pray that it will be a wonderful life with him...I do see one with him...please pray for me.

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  7. I'm a cap and i find this i don't what... :( sometimes when reltaed to real life these posts feel so fake... -_-

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  8. This is so me and my boyfriend. You've said everything!

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  9. Do you have one for a Capricorn woman and a Virgo man? I looked, but did not see one. Thank you!

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  10. Do you have one for a Capricorn woman and a Virgo man? I looked, but did not see one. Thank you!

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    1. Hello Elizabeth! Not yet, but I absolutely will do one. Stay tuned, and thanks for reading SSS

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  11. As a Capricorn male with a Libra moon, some of this is accurate but a few things don't fly with me. For one, when it comes to how the relationship looks to the peanut gallery, my give-a-damn is permanently busted, and a Virgo woman isn't gonna be too thrilled about that. She's gonna want those "Oh, you two are so cute together" compliments while I'd just as soon introduce the peanut gallery to the two twins named "Sit" and "Spin" - i.e. the two middle fingers. Also, when Virgos get very critical over imperfections in the relationship, Capricorn interprets it as open ridicule. And Capricorn males often respond with ridicule with their hat - they'll put it on and bolt out the door, leaving the Virgo to contemplate the perfection of four walls. Too much nagging and ridicule, and he probably won't be coming back.

    Another issue: my Libra moon sign gives me (1) their short wick (2) the lazy/procrastination spats that can last hours/days/weeks (3) as well as the constantly grinning like a shit house rat the entire time. To ambitious Virgos, this will grate on their nerves until they can't take it anymore. Trouble there is Librans don't simmer. They don't stew. They just freakin' DETONATE ...... and back to grinning like a shit house rat 15 seconds later! Just like a tornado.

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  12. Hi i have a question iam a married girl who have a son seperated frm my husband i have a frnd a cappy guy he is younger to me unmarried he was my frnd before but when he knew abt my life he proposed me and said that he had love when he met me and he started to be very close to me and had a date with him also now i feel good abt him and miss him but iam confused wht is the status abt him in my life

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  13. Truly dis thing is real cuz am experiencing it right now from my Virgo woman

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  14. I can relate to this a lot. Thanks.

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  15. Desiree, when I read the part about your mother and the hand washing...I laughed out loud! My kids think I'm crazy! I keep telling them, "Im a Virgo...I cannot help it!" lol. What is your father's sign?

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    1. We always joked that we were going to put "wash your hands" on her gravestone. My father is a Gemini, but they are no longer together.

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  16. Hey, do you think that you could do 'Scorpio Man and Virgo Woman' please? I believe I saw a Scorpio Woman and Virgo Man, but not the Scorpio Man and Virgo Woman. Thank you in advanced!

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  17. OMG, How perfectly descriptive of ME!!! I thought you actually knew me personally or was masquerading as a friend of mine - lol!!! and this actually him and us to a keen point. Wow I'm amazed at your spiritual wit! No doubt the most, powerful, earth shaking shattering duo of friends and love - I've Ever Experienced.

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  18. I'm also a Virgo female and in a relationship wiz a capricorn male everything is true in z article but i dn't think we are made for each other Coz we already had two break ups and he even avoids me but I really love him..but FM's know any him

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  19. OMG after I read this I had to say out loud to my Capricorn husband that someone has really been spying on us LMAO! I am a Virgo woman and I must say that you really said it all like a perfectionist :) so true. only one thing that has me thinking though is the trust part my husband and I have fallen apart and came back together many times this has happened and I believe that because of so many times it has put trust issues in our relationship. I would rather him and myself be more happy alone then ever feel that the person you love is lying to you ect. well thank you and your readsing was really helpful and uplifting and true Ricki

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  20. I'm a Capricorn an I'm truly in love with a Virgo but we are BFF we always say I love you, when we are together it's always perfect. We both help eachother out when we both are struggling. We both go out of our ways, an we know eachother for almost 10 years. She is a few years older but age don't mean shit to me. We both had issues in the past but like I said when I'm with her I'm so happy and great full even if I show no facial expression but just being around her means the world to me. But like I said, we are bffs should I keep pushin an bring it up or leave it be...?

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  21. She was gone for almost 5 years an when she came back all my feelings for her came back the moment I hugged her. This feeling kills me inside but I just need some kind of opinions cause idk what to do.

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  22. Hi ,, I think since you and her came this far I think you all should keep pushing, because I had a Capricorn man and it was a good chemistry between him and I at least me ,it was that I felt more for him it seems, but I love him Iseem to put more in the relationship by calling him more and trying to set up days to see him more but not crowd him because I don't like to be crowd he and I worked a lot also, but you still not supposed to let that stop you or neglect you from seeing each other, I broke up with him Christmas Day, because he wasn't giving me enough attention we were only seeing each other once or twice a month,he spent Xmas day @ home sleeping,he could of slept @ my house, at least I would have felt him close to me there with me you know, if I didn't call him he wouldn't call me it was like a Tit for Tat,so I would like give in and call him,I'm very stubborn by me being a Virgo and him being a Capricorn,but we had good chemistry when we were together,I broke up with him Christmas Day,he told me he could not commit to giving me more time together.I'm still hoping he will come back to me, because I'm not going to give in,because I want him to do a whole 360 degree turn around if me and him get back together, we went to the log cabins in the Armish Country before Thanksgiving, that was my idea so we can spend time together,, that was the best time that we had together, but keep hanging in there with her,I admire u & her putting the effort into your relationship and making it very valuable ,God bless you and her to be together forever if it is Jehovah's will..

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  23. Hi ,, I think since you and her came this far I think you all should keep pushing, because I had a Capricorn man and it was a good chemistry between him and I at least me ,it was that I felt more for him it seems, but I love him Iseem to put more in the relationship by calling him more and trying to set up days to see him more but not crowd him because I don't like to be crowd he and I worked a lot also, but you still not supposed to let that stop you or neglect you from seeing each other, I broke up with him Christmas Day, because he wasn't giving me enough attention we were only seeing each other once or twice a month,he spent Xmas day @ home sleeping,he could of slept @ my house, at least I would have felt him close to me there with me you know, if I didn't call him he wouldn't call me it was like a Tit for Tat,so I would like give in and call him,I'm very stubborn by me being a Virgo and him being a Capricorn,but we had good chemistry when we were together,I broke up with him Christmas Day,he told me he could not commit to giving me more time together.I'm still hoping he will come back to me, because I'm not going to give in,because I want him to do a whole 360 degree turn around if me and him get back together, we went to the log cabins in the Armish Country before Thanksgiving, that was my idea so we can spend time together,, that was the best time that we had together, but keep hanging in there with her,I admire u & her putting the effort into your relationship and making it very valuable ,God bless you and her to be together forever if it is Jehovah's will..

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  24. I appreciate it like I said she tells me I'm her BFF an a lot of people know. We do spend a lot of time to gether rather it's for a few hours or the whole day. An when I go hang with her an her adopted mom we all would drink an have fun at there house an when it's time to sleep she always tells me to go to the same bed with her. Out of respect I always sleep real close to the eadge to not invade her space. Since she didn't have a car me wanting to take her an her moms where ever they need to go but by doing that I know I always make her smile when she sprained her foot I took charge an told her she wasn't taking no bus to work so I would get her her coffee an snakes take her to work an pick her up. Me an her can be stubborn she's always been a really tough woman since I met her. She would cook dinner for me. But when we would text it's like we are together we always say babe an I love you. But idk... I keep it real an tell her how I always feel an I never keep shit from her. Idk some of my friends say I'm just doing too much an when she goes out its with her other friends that she hasn't seen in years an I except that cause she does work very hard so if she makes plans with other people I don't invite me self I just tell her to be safe an call me for anything happens. But if we make plans the plan is set. It's just me really wanting more then just being a BFF I want her to me my lady my woman my gf. I been single for 3 years an when I'm with her I'm so happy in the inside. I'm sure she is too just she shows it different. But idk I will always love an care for her I been there for her for so much I hope it dosent change when I talk to her about something I seen that bothered me. Cause as far as I know we both are single. We are BFFs but I want more but idk if she sees it eye to eye. We don't fight we always come to an agreement an get it done.

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  25. Hi once again...hope everything is going well in your life.to me from what u were saying about your girlfriend she acts like the cappy&u the Virgo.that is so peculiar.I say that cause out of all my cappy relationships short for Capricorn.in case you didn't know.I felt like u for her.&the way she acts in the relationship.which is not bad.she acts like the Capricorn. Cause the Capricorns are the ones that's always busy don't have a lot of time for you they go away for 6 months to a year or maybe two years then they come back to you Virgos are the ones mentally crave for the attention from the Capricorn.but can,t get it until the cappy.can give it..& things like the Virgo is sort of Soft when it comes to the love of their cappy.. but the Virgo can use their mental strength to be hard &put their foot down&give up on this trying relationship.I hope you understand what I,m saying..should I say more..the cappy really sometimes to me act like u need them more..&they know that if they put a lot of space between u & themselves the Virgo go,s mentally feigning goo goo gah gah for that 2cu mode.but Virgo use their mental hardness to bare it.for a long period of time.& if a Virgo wants a concrete relationship like u do w/ your girl .then it seems like the Capricorn drags on not permitting that to materialize.I,m going to end it here .dude cause I can go on & on w/ this conversation.god bless u & girlfriend..

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  26. Hi once again...hope everything is going well in your life.to me from what u were saying about your girlfriend she acts like the cappy&u the Virgo.that is so peculiar.I say that cause out of all my cappy relationships short for Capricorn.in case you didn't know.I felt like u for her.&the way she acts in the relationship.which is not bad.she acts like the Capricorn. Cause the Capricorns are the ones that's always busy don't have a lot of time for you they go away for 6 months to a year or maybe two years then they come back to you Virgos are the ones mentally crave for the attention from the Capricorn.but can,t get it until the cappy.can give it..& things like the Virgo is sort of Soft when it comes to the love of their cappy.. but the Virgo can use their mental strength to be hard &put their foot down&give up on this trying relationship.I hope you understand what I,m saying..should I say more..the cappy really sometimes to me act like u need them more..&they know that if they put a lot of space between u & themselves the Virgo go,s mentally feigning goo goo gah gah for that 2cu mode.but Virgo use their mental hardness to bare it.for a long period of time.& if a Virgo wants a concrete relationship like u do w/ your girl .then it seems like the Capricorn drags on not permitting that to materialize.I,m going to end it here .dude cause I can go on & on w/ this conversation.god bless u & girlfriend..

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  27. Wow! Virgo woman with a cappy man ♡ accurate af lol awe he needs to wake up I miss him now

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  28. Wow! Virgo woman with a cappy man ♡ accurate af lol awe he needs to wake up I miss him now

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  29. Hahahah this is just a bad copy paste from Linda Goodman's work! Nice try though :p

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