Scorpio Woman - Aquarius Man



She enticed him at first with the mystery of her deepness.  Being with a Scorpio feels as though you went to just go put your toes in the water and somehow ended up in the depths of the ocean amongst the fish and beautiful coral reefs.  Its exciting, deep, mysterious, and ever-changing.  The depths of a Scorpion woman are always varying, and at times can become strange even when her ocean started to become familiar to him.    Remember though, this man is an Air sign.  He needs to come up for oxygen every once in a while.  Scorpios are possessive when they love, and Aquarian men only allow themselves to be possessed for short periods of time.  If he is smart, he will realize that being possessed by this magnetic woman is better than becoming unposessed and discarded when he has hurt her by asking for too much freedom.  When you hurt a Scorpion woman she will ACT as though she does not care where you go or what you do, and may ACT as though you don't exist.  Don't even bother saying hi to her when you see her next.  How could she say hi back to a man that is invisible to her?  The deep freeze that a Scorpio woman can put on her emotions will make him feel very cold.  He will start wishing he was possessed by her again.  It was way better swimming in her ocean than standing outside of it with no towel and shivering to death.

She doesn't like seeing him freeze, but she needs to teach him a lesson because she loves this man and wants him to swim with her forever.  Typically when a Scorpio has made you invisible its permanent, unless her heart is involved.  If any man can break this woman's icy spells its this man.  He loves to break things.... breaking rules, breaking traditional views, and breaking out unexpected remarks.  He loves the shock factor of it all.  After he breaks her chilling silent treatment, they can go swimming again.... only more cautiously this time. 

She needs to learn that he can bear her emotional intensity in small doses.  If not he starts to lose his self-control. He needs to learn that even though she may be quiet when she's irritated by him, her emotions can be turning and burning from within.  The quieter this woman is, the more angry she is.  Somewhat like a volcano.  When he is upset however he will let you know right away... and you will definitely know.  He doesn't announce his thoughts allowed unless he's really upset, and there are a couple of reasons for that.  Sometimes ideas pop in and out of his mind so quickly that he can't even remember it let alone tell you about it, and the other reason is that he refrains from saying what he is thinking because he senses that he may change his mind about it in a few minutes.  He figures, why waste his energy talking about something that is so transient in his mind? No one ever said this man wasn't a little bit strange. 

He LOVES to shock this woman by saying the most off the wall thing.  I don't blame him.  There really isn't anything more satisfying than seeing a Scorpio woman shocked... it's not an easy thing to do.  For example: she will be nagging him about how he never gets her flowers while he is watching TV one morning.  She will think he hasn't heard her because he always has that distant aloof look in his eyes.  Then one morning she will walk in the house and there will be the most beautiful flower arrangement next to her bed with all of her favorite flowers.  When she calls to say thank you, he will tell her that he has no idea about any flowers and that magical leprechauns must have done it. 


Most people call this man crazy, but she loves it.  His craziness brings her a sense of freedom One thing these two have in common is that they are both very individual people.  They do not feel a need to conform to others thoughts or beliefs in the way they act or how they should think.  However, Scorpio believes that some things should just remain private.  Most of their fighting will actually take place with things that he does in public, which is why things are just a little easier when these two are alone.  See although you would never know, sometimes his eccentric behavior embarrasses her in public even though she thoroughly enjoys it behind closed doors.  Strange, but once he gets the hang of it it's smooth sailing. 

The physical attraction may not be the thing that attracted these two right at the beginning.  It's usually some odd bond that they share that does the trick like a mutual interest, having went through a difficult yet similar situation, or even the kind of work that they do. She will love his humanitarian nature, although sometimes she wishes he wouldn't have so many friends so that she could spend more time with him.  Their relationship will grow more emotional every day from the bond they have. Only when friendship has been firmly established is when he can give his full attention to his physical expression.  She will notice that the longer she is with this man, the better and better sex gets.  How is that possible?  He is mental.... and then emotional.  That is why.

These two signs are square to one another.  By what most astrologers say, they shouldn't work.  I say differently.  Will they have to work at it a little harder than most?  Yes, absolutely.  The best advice that I can give to my Scorpion sisters dating an Aquarian man is this.... Do not let your memory think of past misfortunes and disappointment to guide your present attitude into bitter waves of resentment.  Being a Scorpio woman, I know that this can be EXTREMELY hard to do.  Take note from your kooky Aquarius.  He is not looking back with resentment, he is moving forward.  Follow him.  He finds it silly to waste precious energy looking back, he would rather use it to push straight ahead.  Grab ahold of his hand and move with him. 

If this man claims you as his love, you are not just his wife, girlfriend, or lover.  You are his best friend.  Within her there is so much depth, desire, and emotion; within him there is an endless amount of excitement and inventive ideas.  Yes these two are very different, but they are both strong willed and have confidence.  This is what will keep them together. Where there is enough will, the heart's wisdom can always find a way.



22 comments:

  1. awwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I love it...this post was very helpful...Thank you so much! I am a scorpio woman and I've been dealing with my Aquarius man for going on 4yrs now...only he has a kid and a babymother...but I can def see alot of truth in what you say in our situation...we've had our ups and downs...but It's weird this crazy, quirky guy managed to steal my heart and I love him :).

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  2. I'm a Scorpio woman who has begun dating an Aquarius man and it's kinda eeerie how close this hit me... Thank u for this assessment BC it has definitely described my situation and how to handle it

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  3. The world is not small, but to know about is one of the best thing that is done through astrology that lets your daily, weekly, monthly horoscope as makes to plan proper.

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  4. I'm a Scorpio gal who is falling for an Aquarius man so hard that it's not even funny. I can't read him at all, either and as a Scorpion lady, that is so frustrating. But he keeps me on my toes. It's never a dull moment around him. I just wish I knew if he felt anything for me.

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  5. Hi Everyone! I am a Scorpio woman falling for an Aquarius man. He is actually good friends with my first love and that is how we met. When my first love cheated I left him only to find out I was pregnant by him. I miscarried. Through it all, this Aquarius man had been there to take me out for coffee, drinks, church, zip lining, the gym...you name it. He says he can never date me because he can never be with a woman his friend had. Despite his comments, I know we have chemistry and I am falling for him. I think hes falling too and that we have potential for a promising love. He always contacts me first and we have long conversations. Can h3 ever change his mind and be with me?

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  6. I am scorpio married to aquarius man. This truly does fit us. We've been together 12 years and still going strong. He figured out the silence stages.

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  7. Hi I am a scorpion woman friends with a aquarian man, im falling for him hard, we have been talking forabout 8 months and we have become closer than I've ever been to people I've been knowing for years. This post is so accurate it's scary lol.. my only pet peeve is that he is so distant when we're together but he also so loving and caring, he calls me all the time, comes over and always thinking of things for us to do, so it's confusing, its like I know he likes me a lot but then again im questioning motives, I can't stay mad at him even if I wanted too. We are becoming like best friends. He has physically told me he is never going anywhere and that he always will be in my life. I just wish that he was more affectionate being a scorpio women im a firm believer of actions speak louder than words. But this post gives me hope. I just don't want to waste my time with someone and invest this much emotion unless its going somewhere but at this point he doesn't believe in labels and says he's enjoying hisself with me and he's not sure where it'll go but not stopping what happens. Im more of a I need to know person but im finding myself being more care free and just going with the flow and being patient.

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  8. I am an Aquarius man dating a Scorpio woman. I have never been happier in any relationship I've ever been in. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. We have conflicts, but that's normal in any relationship. I was caught in the gaze of my beautiful Scorpio and I was entranced. I'm happier with her than peanut butter is with chocolate. Except she doesn't like chocolate. :/

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  9. I am a scorpio lady, just met the most amazing aquarian man. We met on TINDER lol... Which im not ashamed of but is definitely humorous. Thank you for this entry, it makes a lot of sense and is yes pretty much dead on. He is so funny and caring - and surprisingly talking about marriage and kids rather quickly in conversation and quickly considered me as his partner in crime/bestest friend/his go-to girl (but I think the marriage/kids talk is just due to his past and he is anxious to be better than his parents/past). I have found doing research on his personality/sign is very helpful if you really want to mesh with your Aquarian to actually read, listen, and force yourself (as a scorpio lol) to free yourself and just be carefree with him. I am getting better at controlling my steamy inner emotions as I get older, when I acknowledge them and keep them cool it really allows us to bond EVEN better.

    He is falling hard for me and quickly which is scary (again, scorpio here - my walls are going up and down lol) but in a very modest, friendly, and VERY caring genuine way!!!!! Which I am not used to, its quite beautiful!! Again, if you really want it to work do some light research get to know him (cuz its true they are hard to really read and know off the bat) and just let loose and float with him, its dope and so fun!!! :-) :-)

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    1. omg it feels like ur talking about me here, i too met my aquarian man on tinder, i hope its going well for you , we started as friends first, now we are taking this to the next level, i like him alot

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  12. omg this post is so right, they say we are compatible with Taurus, Pisces, Virgos, cancers Capricorns and other Scorpios, WRONG because I am dating an Aquarius man he is the best thing I ever met in my life, the sex is good, we have fun and it is a beautiful feeling I get when im around him.

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  13. I am an Aquarius man with over 2 year relationship with my scorpio woman. I thought article was excellent, really loved it! I have read several similar ones but reading this from a Scorpio perspective is fascinating. My relationship has been difficult at times with many extreme situations. However throughout my journey with my scorpio partner I have slowly began to realise just how amazing she is. For those who are really serious and sincere about what they want as well as patient and persevering, they will find that scorpio have so much love, dedication and kindness to give to the man they love. These woman are forceful, powerful and dominating by definition however once they truly see you have nothing to hide and truly love them for who they are, they come under your control willingly to please you. ( or so I have found).
    Nothing really worth it can be gained easily, the struggle as well as the journey together make the good result much more appreciated!
    Peace

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    1. It's so odd you should speak to the power/control dynamic and how scorpion women respond to trust and full disclosure. I've been with an Aquarian man for 11 months now, and although he was first drawn by my dominance and temper (I was reprimanding a contractor), I've relished in his discovery of my more submissive nature. He is generous and quietly dominant. He never has to announce himself "the man". He allows me the room to be strong-willed, but his affection affords me the trust and intimacy to devote myself to him and let him take the wheel. I find it so interesting that scorpion women willingly serve the pleasures and needs of the men who manage to disarm us.

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  14. I'm a scorpio lady and I dating a Aquarium man. I have been knowing him since we were kid. We were good friends & were just fall in love. We talk about any & everything. The bond we share is amazing. He have very positive energy. He always make sure I'm good. He is my teddy bear. We rock together.

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  15. Thank you for this i defently have diffrent view of things now i'm Aquarious and with Virgo but i was always wondering how Scorpio and Aquarious get i mean they are well known Zodiac Rivals, for example my Brother of course we love each other but we were getting in so much conflicts when we were Kids from simple conversation about who will sip coca cola to High politic and he is Scorpio.

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  16. Thank you for this i defently have diffrent view of things now i'm Aquarious and with Virgo but i was always wondering how Scorpio and Aquarious get i mean they are well known Zodiac Rivals, for example my Brother of course we love each other but we were getting in so much conflicts when we were Kids from simple conversation about who will sip coca cola to High politic and he is Scorpio.

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  17. Thank you for such an insightful article. I am an Aquarian man and two months ago have met the most incredible Scorpio woman. I can feel that I am falling for her, because of her strength, dominant personality, drive and affection.

    She is guarded, but she has admitted that I am so disarming. I can see that I am breaking down the barriers and the closer we grow together the deeper my attachment to her.

    I just have to be patient and everything will fall into place. She inspires me with all that she has achieved in life and her determination to climb new heights in life.

    I like that she open to me take control in the bedroom.

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  18. Thank you for such an insightful article. I am an Aquarian man and two months ago have met the most incredible Scorpio woman. I can feel that I am falling for her, because of her strength, dominant personality, drive and affection.

    She is guarded, but she has admitted that I am so disarming. I can see that I am breaking down the barriers and the closer we grow together the deeper my attachment to her.

    I just have to be patient and everything will fall into place. She inspires me with all that she has achieved in life and her determination to climb new heights in life.

    I like that she open to me take control in the bedroom.

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  19. I met my Aquarius guy 3 years ago. & though I want to kill him EVERYDAY; Stevie Wonder could see that we have a love that words can't express! Lol. I'd dig his body up just to to fall in love with him & ONLY HIM ALL OVER AGAIN!
    But Only With His PERMISSION!!!!!!! (;

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  20. I thoroughly enjoyed this article. What a crackup! I resonate with the words profoundly. I find the aptitude of these symbolic photos ironically humorous. I am a Scorpio women and I just cut the cord with a gorgeous but aloof Aquarius man.

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