Scorpio Woman - Aquarius Man


She enticed him at first with the mystery of her deepness.  Being with a Scorpio feels as though you went to just go put your toes in the water and somehow ended up in the depths of the ocean amongst the fish and beautiful coral reefs.  Its exciting, deep, mysterious, and ever-changing.  The depths of a Scorpion woman are always varying, and at times can become strange even when her ocean started to become familiar to him.    Remember though, this man is an Air sign.  He needs to come up for oxygen every once in a while.  Scorpios are possessive when they love, and Aquarian men only allow themselves to be possessed for short periods of time.  If he is smart, he will realize that being possessed by this magnetic woman is better than becoming unposessed and discarded when he has hurt her by asking for too much freedom.  When you hurt a Scorpion woman she will ACT as though she does not care where you go or what you do, and may ACT as though you don't exist.  Don't even bother saying hi to her when you see her next.  How could she say hi back to a man that is invisible to her?  The deep freeze that a Scorpio woman can put on her emotions will make him feel very cold.  He will start wishing he was possessed by her again.  It was way better swimming in her ocean than standing outside of it with no towel and shivering to death.

She doesn't like seeing him freeze, but she needs to teach him a lesson because she loves this man and wants him to swim with her forever.  Typically when a Scorpio has made you invisible its permanent, unless her heart is involved.  If any man can break this woman's icy spells its this man.  He loves to break things.... breaking rules, breaking traditional views, and breaking out unexpected remarks.  He loves the shock factor of it all.  After he breaks her chilling silent treatment, they can go swimming again.... only more cautiously this time. 

She needs to learn that he can bear her emotional intensity in small doses.  If not he starts to lose his self-control. He needs to learn that even though she may be quiet when she's irritated by him, her emotions can be turning and burning from within.  The quieter this woman is, the more angry she is.  Somewhat like a volcano.  When he is upset however he will let you know right away... and you will definitely know.  He doesn't announce his thoughts allowed unless he's really upset, and there are a couple of reasons for that.  Sometimes ideas pop in and out of his mind so quickly that he can't even remember it let alone tell you about it, and the other reason is that he refrains from saying what he is thinking because he senses that he may change his mind about it in a few minutes.  He figures, why waste his energy talking about something that is so transient in his mind? No one ever said this man wasn't a little bit strange. 

He LOVES to shock this woman by saying the most off the wall thing.  I don't blame him.  There really isn't anything more satisfying than seeing a Scorpio woman shocked... it's not an easy thing to do.  For example: she will be nagging him about how he never gets her flowers while he is watching TV one morning.  She will think he hasn't heard her because he always has that distant aloof look in his eyes.  Then one morning she will walk in the house and there will be the most beautiful flower arrangement next to her bed with all of her favorite flowers.  When she calls to say thank you, he will tell her that he has no idea about any flowers and that magical leprechauns must have done it. 

Most people call this man crazy, but she loves it.  His craziness brings her a sense of freedom One thing these two have in common is that they are both very individual people.  They do not feel a need to conform to others thoughts or beliefs in the way they act or how they should think.  However, Scorpio believes that some things should just remain private.  Most of their fighting will actually take place with things that he does in public, which is why things are just a little easier when these two are alone.  See although you would never know, sometimes his eccentric behavior embarrasses her in public even though she thoroughly enjoys it behind closed doors.  Strange, but once he gets the hang of it it's smooth sailing. 

The physical attraction may not be the thing that attracted these two right at the beginning.  It's usually some odd bond that they share that does the trick like a mutual interest, having went through a difficult yet similar situation, or even the kind of work that they do. She will love his humanitarian nature, although sometimes she wishes he wouldn't have so many friends so that she could spend more time with him.  Their relationship will grow more emotional every day from the bond they have. Only when friendship has been firmly established is when he can give his full attention to his physical expression.  She will notice that the longer she is with this man, the better and better sex gets.  How is that possible?  He is mental.... and then emotional.  That is why.

These two signs are square to one another.  By what most astrologers say, they shouldn't work.  I say differently.  Will they have to work at it a little harder than most?  Yes, absolutely.  The best advice that I can give to my Scorpion sisters dating an Aquarian man is this.... Do not let your memory think of past misfortunes and disappointment to guide your present attitude into bitter waves of resentment.  Being a Scorpio woman, I know that this can be EXTREMELY hard to do.  Take note from your kooky Aquarius.  He is not looking back with resentment, he is moving forward.  Follow him.  He finds it silly to waste precious energy looking back, he would rather use it to push straight ahead.  Grab ahold of his hand and move with him. 

If this man claims you as his love, you are not just his wife, girlfriend, or lover.  You are his best friend.  Within her there is so much depth, desire, and emotion; within him there is an endless amount of excitement and inventive ideas.  Yes these two are very different, but they are both strong willed and have confidence.  This is what will keep them together. Where there is enough will, the heart's wisdom can always find a way.