She felt herself drawn to him like a magnet the first time she meet him. She was no match for his dreamy Aquarian eyes. She felt as light as a cloud the first time she looked into them. Being the proud Leo she is, she did her best to resist, but it did her no good. She was swept away by this breezy Air Sign element and taken to the sky to sit amongst the stars. Everything in this relationship started as rainbows, and unicorns, and butterflies..... oh my. She loved being in his electric blue aura that's a little awkward, but so refreshing.
He oddly felt the same way the first time he meet her. He loved everything about her from the way her toes were shaped, all the way to her adorable nose. He loved being in her glowing hot orange aura that is as fiery and blinding as the sun. She behaved as a queen, an angel, a sweet hummingbird. Her smile could melt him from across the room. She was hot flaming passion, but somehow as cool as a lemon popsicle in the mid-summers heat.
Was that the sound of thunder I just heard? Did I just feel a rain drop on my face? Uh oh... looks like a storm is coming. Heat lighting, rolling thunder, torrential rain. His air creates a tornado and her fire whips around with it destroying their perfect heaven. She calls him stuffy, stingy, and sarcastic while he yells back that she is rude, regal, and resentful. Wait... what the hell just happened???
Polarities happened (please see previous blog post for further understanding of polarities). These two sit directly opposite of one another on the karmic wheel. Whenever this happens to any sign, there is always an instant attraction. Opposites definitely attract, especially in the case of this Leo woman and Aquarius man. She just needs to remember to not envy him but imitate the things he does well that she lacks. He needs to realizes that if he tried a little harder he could acquire her gracefulness which would truly bless his personality. That's what opposition is all about... not fighting but blending. What these two need to stay away from is trying to top one another constantly. It must be a consistent effort on both ends of give and take.
It's funny because I have observed that most Leo women tend stay away from Aquarian women, but are inexplicably attracted to Aquarian men. He just makes her want to let her hair down and run through a meadow of flowers with him in both an imaginative and realistic way. The two things she envies most about this man is his freedom of expression, and his ability to be detached and unemotional because her passions tend to rule her reasoning which can lead her, at times, to regret her decisions. Maybe if she became close to him and a part of him, she could get to know his tricks?
She baffles him by giving him hope that there is more to a relationship than just an intellectual conversation. He looks at the Lioness as this mystical feline creature. She makes him think of love and emotions (I can hear the Aquarian men gag when they read this part). The Lioness makes his heart and body feel things he never thought he was capable of feeling. What is this crazy spell she has over him? He can't quite figure it out.
He has never been this affectionate with a woman the way he has with her. This makes her feel not only comfortably emotionally, but sexually as well. Sometimes their sex can be so good that it ties their relationship together after they get into an argument. In other words... they know the meaning of "makeup sex".
One thing this man needs to remember is this woman not only appreciates compliments, she needs them. Think of it like this; she is a wild Lioness and compliments are her antelope. Do you want to be in the same room as a Lioness who hasn't been feed in a week? Didn't think so. The problem here is that Aquarian men, especially when in love, enjoy playing guessing games. He finds it amusing to drop hints, clues, and suggestions by inviting her into his strange mind that most don't get to venture into. He thinks that's enough to show her she's love. You are wrong Aquarius..... you are so wrong. She doesn't have time for that nonsense. Just pay her the damn compliment. Yes, this will be difficult for the Aquarian man because that's really not how he tends to go about things. He just feels uneasy with expressing his deepest emotions, plus it's just so much more fun to make a joke.
She will just have to remember that this man is unpredictable and eccentric. The mere fact that he told her, "I love you" should give you great comfort in knowing he's serious. He does not casually give out love. You may be irritated with him for this, but remember my dear when he is holding hands with you in bed on a lazy Saturday morning that it is not what people say that matters, but what people do. If you are too full of self pity because he didn't tell you that your hair looked nice that day, but he made you breakfast, it's time for a reality check sista.
As far as doubts that this woman may have about her quirky Aquarius, just always remember that he told you, "I love you" and that he deeply truly meant it from his soul.