Gemini Woman - Cancer Man


They are both good talkers, Gemini and Cancer.  Cancer has an extremely good memory, and Gemini has great wit and charm.  The two of them have conversations like a good game of tennis, back and forth back and forth.  After that they will whip out the camera and start snapping away.  They both share a love of photography along with Leo and Pisces.  Another similarity between these two is is that their auras are every color of the rainbow because they are both so incredibly moody (the picture above is so perfect for this post).  Cancer will dip from the deep blues of depression to their lavender-hued rosy pink laughter.  Gemini will jump from her bright yellow cheer to her dark purple pit of despair.  When their auras mix its like a bowl of Fruity Pebbles.  They are both big dreamers and have vivid imaginations, and both adore attention.  They are also both inclined to laugh in public, and cry in private.

With all of these things that they have in common you must be thinking that it is hard to tell them apart. It is NOT.  It is about as hard as telling a bird apart from a crab.  Yes they are both frequently amusing and both change their mood without warning, but these two have their definite differences.  They are as different as night and day, as different as north and south.  Gemini is mutable and an air sign, while Cancer is Cardinal and a Water Sign.  Geminis prefer to dart around all over and talk about all their ideas and dreams.  Cancers do not enjoy communicating their secrets and prefer to run the show.  They do not do things as loudly as a Gemini, but they are still running the show.



In friendship, business, love, and relationships Gemini women do not cling.  They hold onto everything loose and casually, they let go too easily and sometimes too soon.  Cancer hangs onto things for dear life.  They like the familiarity of what they have that feels comforting and familiar.  Cancer men love their home, a good comfort food meal, and 99% of them are mama's boys.  They are impressionable and sensitive men and when pushed into their shell the Gemini woman can usually sweet talk them out.

When Cancer's possessiveness crosses with Geminis constant need for freedom the clash can cut their dreams and relationship.  You see there are two or more women inside of every Gemini woman.  One that will want to stay closely by his side, and one that will want to gallivant around and do whatever pleases her.  He will not be fond of that.  They may also run into spending problems as well.  However, if he has enough emotional security he will not need as much financial security.  Her tendency to spend is because she finds more excitement in spending money than saving it.  When she has more freedom and emotional challenge she will not feel a need to spend as much.  See how that can get a little tricky for them?

In the bedroom he supplies the sensuousness and affection while she supplies imagination and variety.  It will very rarely become repetitive.  There is something very delicate and gentle the way she seeks his affection.  Most Cancer men do not like sleeping without a light on, but with her he will find that the darkness is his friend.  He will love feeling her head resting on his shoulder and because of this she will become calmer, quieter, and more at peace with everything in her life.

Once their love is declared for one another SHE will be the one to shower him with gifts.  At first he won't know how to take this right away, but he will timidly show his friends because it proves that he is loved by her.  When a Cancer man feels loved he will show boundless and bottomless love to her.  He will always treat her like a lady, and this will bring her to tears of joy.  Despite what most think, a Gemini woman is a realist despite her constant changing moods.

Gemini women are mental wanderers, drifters, cut loose from all ties, emotionally homeless, lost and seeking the eternal child.  A Cancer is the eternal father who is protective, warm, and comforting.  No wonder these two are drawn to one another.   





53 comments:

  1. I find it hard because he has his nice side, but when you challenge him it becomes all out war, he is always write, and instead of arguing with you, he just avoids you and uses passive aggressive behavior, i love him, but i couldn't deal with that all the time it is exhausting.

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    1. Hi Lisa... yes Cancer men are not ones to really be challenged. They are Cardinal signs and they like to lead. Once a Crab goes into his shell you will truly know what the "silent treatment" is.

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    2. "Once a Crab goes into his shell you will truly know what the 'silent treatment' is." Seriously true! I am a cancer man and can be a talkative or argue when in love, but once you hurt me you would understand beyond imagination the expression "Silence is Golden." I swear, scorned cancers can make you beg a dumb man to say "Hello to you."

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  2. I Love this post because of how detailed and spot on it is :) I am a gemini and have all these problems and upsides in my relationship with my cancer man. But all problems seem to vanish after we discuss them and compromise

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    1. Hello Trishka! Being a Gemini woman, you know you have a lot of power with your words. Discussion and compromise is KEY with these two signs! So glad you enjoyed the post :)

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  3. i like the post ,, it feels like it helped me know my cancer man more,,,

    coz i felt so unsecured coz he is in that " silent treatment" mode ...

    the post gave some ideas on how to heal some wounds on my crusty crab ^_^ man...i hope we will be ok soon..thanks again to this post

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    1. I am so happy you enjoyed the post! I hope you figure things out. Please let me know if you have nay requests!

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  4. OMG. This Ca ncer man and Gemini woman article is so RIGHT ON. MY Cancer man liked leaving the living room. I can't sleep with a light on.. WITH all we have gone through for thr last year....relationship on....off...on..off.... yet some type of INVISIBLE GLUE keeps us bound. So...the statement ..."with her, he will find that the darkness is his friend. He will find that the darkness is his friend. Because of this, she will become CALMER, QUIETER, AND MORE AT PEACEcwith everything I her life". (This is si b true about me. No matter the ups and downs...I feel safe snd at peace when my head is resting on his . My world is at peace. .

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  5. Omg i just recently meet a cancer guy and its like off the bat it was something about this man.Time has gone on for just a few more weeks and I find myself falling head over hills for That Man. His birthday July 4 and mine June 20,and I dont wanna sound Corny but he is this best man I could ever know and I never ever want him to leave me
    Hopelessly in love

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  6. Ok! I've been dating a Cancer male for about 6 months. He has gone really slow and is very patient. Everytime I talk to him he makes me feel Amazing! I don't know what it is about him but I can deffinantly see him in my future. As a Gemini Woman I can get turned off easily and be very impatient, with him its tottally different!
    Excited for my future!

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    1. You should be! Love him up Ms Gemini

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    2. I have dated 4 cancer men and the all have that quick temper but the also can be sweet hearts

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  7. I find this very true and it explains our relationship in depth. we have been together for three years as a Gemini Women once you fall in love you love hard. It has been really rocky and I think now it is at its worst. I believe its the difference and I want him to understand and communicate unlike myself he is not a compromising person and sometimes rather not talk. I learned by your blog to not pick as his moods so I stopped.But our common traits keeps us together as if we are in a relationship. I wanted to know how can I change his views of maybe not to I know this is. Just to make him understand lets have a fresh start.?

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  8. Well I'm a cancer man and I've been getting to know a lovely Gemini woman. We are not an item yet but I can unashamedly say this... I can't ever remember wanting someone so bad and she tells me its the same for her. Its scary but Jesus I really wanna be with this girl!!..

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  9. Hi; I am also a Gemini woman...I have been with my cancer man for almost 4 yrs...and I'm deeply in love with him...and usually I'm the one who gives him the silent treatment; he doesn't like that not one bit...but after a while I go looking for him in the other room...I don't like being mad at him or arguing with him...but we have a great relationship and were both in love with each other and we can't imagine life with each other. I hope he pops the question soon! Some advice for some other Gemini woman...let him take charge and think hes always right...things will go more smoothly that way...he will never admit to be at fault at anything or even apologize when he offends you or does something wrong...but oh well....someone has to be the bigger man and give way....in that case it's the Gemini woman...Cu's hes not going to... ;)

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  10. ive just met this adorable cancer man. He is handsome great company and has left a powerful effect on me cant stop thinking about him. Then he sends me a crude message which has totally put me off maybe he was drunk but unacceptable and ive told him. Not sure i can see him again now but i know he will sweetalk his way back to me.

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  11. not a good combination- Cancers are cry babies, emotional, infantiles with low self- esteem!

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    1. Why don't you return after you're done with your "time of the month" or yet still "unresolved" issue with that cancer man.

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    2. How you know that cancers are with low self esteem?!

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    3. Yes cancers are crybabies an very emotional, but low esteem not at all. Cancers you have to be patient with him love them shoe him you are the one. When you do your life will be amazing with a cancer. Im dealing with a cancers an sometimes I wanna just call it off but, I seat down in think. If I do my life will not be the same. They're loving caring an when u fall in love with a cancer you will feel like you're on cloud 9

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  12. I am in love with my cancer man so in love that I can sometimes feel myself wanting to push him away because I dont want to hurt him. I have 3 little ones and because of complications can no longer have children, and he is yet to have his family and this is the main reason I do not want him to be attached to me because I can't ask him to take on this kind of burden. We have expressed to eachother that we love each other deeply, but when I am ready to go for it it feels as if he steps back and then when he's ready I step back. Everything else for us is fantastic we hardly argue, we are there for eachother, sex is awesome, we laugh all the time but that one step to commit its like we are both too scared to. Some advise would be great as I am scared he will tire of this game.

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  13. i have pictured every single word you've written in my head while going through this article :) this is on spot and so true..!! me and my cancer man we are infatuated with each other the same exact way you've described it, we've been together since we were teenagers and we are now on the verge of getting married :) he drives me crazy with how he is built which is the total opposite of how am built,, but i am so drunk in love with this man, thank you for this article <3

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  14. This article nailed it. I have this long distance relationship with a gemini woman. I can't stop thinking about her, she can't stop thinking about me. Every detail in this article, to a certain extent, is so close to what happens when we come together.

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  15. Orhiunu Oluwa Purple HazeDecember 31, 2013 at 3:33 AM

    I am a cancer man and i have been dating a gemini lady within the past three months, it has been hell for me... we just two opposite individuals, She does not understand when i need to be left alone... she sees my quiet time as a problem for her... she likes spending than saving even if it means we spend the whole money and go broke.. she is very indecisive, stubborn,temperamental, quick to break up and so on..... Thanks God for this site, it gave me a great insight about gemini women.

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  16. This is kinda off for me I've run into a lot of cancer men .. N all of da connection is just physical ntn more .. I've only had one that I've known for years say recently he wanted a relationship but didn't gve valid reasons why

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  17. I love this article!! I am a gemini girl. Im really crushing on this great cancer guy. He's perfect in my eye's.. im just a bit insecure that he might not want a relationship with me. Yet we have great conversations and idk im over thinking this all and the more I do the more I want to be with him. I just hope some of these articles can help me understand him more, I really want to impress him and show him that I too can understand and really care for him ;) good luck to anyone who is in my situation as well.

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  18. I'm a Gemini gal and have had a crush on a cancer male for years and years- and only a crush because we work together :\ but slowly but surely, he's slowwwly coming out of his shell and showing me more attention than just on the friendship-level that we've had for years (although I'd swear we've had a connection since the first time we got to know one another). He calms me down! My busy gem-mind is slowed down, calmed down and relaxed when I'm spending time with him because he's so calm, cool and laid-back. I've been telling myself that slow and steady wins the race, especially with a cancer man, and reading great articles like this support my motive to stay the course, I can't tell you how worth it he is to me; it's a connection like no other :)

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    1. This is the most sweetest comment ever. Good luck to you (two)!

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    2. I totally agree with you! It made my heart smile. I couldn't agree with you more girlie, I'm a Gemini too June 13 and I just feel like my cancer crush calms me down, just like you said. It's just their nature to let things roll off their sleeve and they always try to help us. However the cancer I like does not seem to be clingy, I feel like the clingy one! :( anyways every time we talk he's always happy and joking around and I think they think we are funny!!! Lol.. Best of luck and love to all of my geminis :) we love forever and give our all xoxo

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  19. This article is to the T, I've never dating a cancer in my life until recent and it's amazing, I am a Gemini and he Cancer

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  21. I am a Gemini woman in love with a Cancer man. He's my best friend and a year older than me. I am 26. I told him about my feelings a few months after his breakup with his ex girlfriend. He said i'm extremely important to him and he needs time to figure things out, although he didn't feel the same way i did. We live in different cities and keep meeting up. Over the last couple of months, we became exclusive, though we never talked or discussed about it. We still chat almost everyday. He initiates the skype calls. I find it very difficult to express my innermost feelings. We are not in a "relationship". I want to be in one and desperately want to know what he thinks. When i asked him about his time with me, he only assures that he isn't wasting his time or mine and that i have no idea how important i am to him. Recently, he started buying me gift and investing a little more time (after i gifted him dozens of stuff). I make random plans to travel without asking him most of the time. But he always manages to make it. Despite all this, he tends to be cold, withdrawn and aloof many times. I do not know what he wants me to do. Does he want me to hold on or back off??? Help needed...

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    1. I do understand you im going through the same thing. An I pray an ask god to show me the way. Keep being there for him you will find yourself happy in love an y'all will be together an one day get married. Just pray an believe an what u pray for. Cause I know deep down me an my cancer friend will be together. I hope things goes in your favor.

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    2. I feel like I just read a paragraph about my Cancer man. I feel your pain. After 6 years, mine said he loves me... 6 FREAKING YEARS! I'm constantly reading up on Mr. Crab because his retreats into his shell drive me batty. Ugh. I hope we can navigate our differences. We are amazing together.

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  22. Im a Gemini he is a cancer.I love his vibe I love our bond we been rocking it for almost two years.we our happy together.the only thing is he has a girlfriend.An I feel I will lost him.we always spend time together, we share great memories. I wouldn't trade him for anyone else. We both love each other.the thing I feel like he is confused about the two of us. What should I do? Help

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  23. It's soo amaziñg how we both get along and the affection we share towards each other is bang on .wer not in a relationship but think we both have major feelings for each other ..we alsoo dream big and set goals that we share to eachother its wired how both of us can't speak our minds aw convos always side tracked to another topics ..but each and every day and night cancer is always on my mind even if we haven't seen each other for ages we seem to take deep breaths of release to finely get to seeing each other agin at last is the greatest feeling in the whole wide world .....my question is if anyone could help me I really want to ask this adorable cancer person out but I shout dwn eveytime,,,,speechlist any help advices out thea ....to help me to express my self in a better way of trying to ask cancer out plzzzz help me

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  24. This is the most right on article I have ever read about gem female and cancer male. He is a romantic at heart. I can have a biting tongue which I have learned over the years to curb because he is sensitive. He was my first love in high school and we found each other again 5 years ago. We live far apart geographically so that is our challenge. When we are together everything is as it should be. We both have admitted to longing for the other over the 26 years apart. It's true. I don't take his feelings for granted when he says how it hurts to be away from me. He is the love of my life and we are epic in our own world. He has loved me since we were children and I have no doubt...he has no doubt either. We both are nostalgic which is a cancer trait I believe. My nostalgia is about him being my first love and he marvels at the beautiful things I have remembered about all these years later. Don't give up Gemini girls instead understand him and allow him to be your knight. He will gladly accept the position

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  25. Omg this is so true I was married to an insane cancer man for 13yrs very sweet at times then he lose it,smh. Then I dated 2 They seem to draw to me its weird but I like there sweetness and there relaxing affect on me. And yes they are clingly everywhere I go he watch who I talk to and how am talking to them dang! But in the end thats my bae��

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  26. They find me hahahaha! You take the bad with the good because a sweet protective cancer is worth putting up with his neurosis. Good luck

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  27. I'm a cancer man. I've been with my Gemini woman for 4 years now. she has fallen out of love. I just want more insight on how this be as an end result? is there a possibility of a second chance ever? I've read that once Gemini' are done, there's no other chance. but I've recently read a lot about on and off relationships for Gemini and cancers... I'm wondering if this applies to those Gemini woman who fell out of love?

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    1. Sorry I am a Gemini woman and when we are done. there is no turning back. I am sorry and if i do it will never make me happy

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    2. Sorry I am a Gemini woman and when we are done. there is no turning back. I am sorry and if i do it will never make me happy

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  28. Michael, I can only speak from my experience and that is, I have been in other relationships in my life including an 16 year marriage in between my relationship with my cancer man. When I was done with my marriage and other relationships I have a sense that I am done. With my cancer man we have gone back and forth over the years including a twenty year "break" but I had a feeling we are never done. Now I don't know if that is useful or even healthy but it is my experience. As a Gemini woman I know I don't like to be smothered but I think I need him to quick being a procrastinator. Again I am speaking for my relationship only. If you have a past of going off and on again, then perhaps time needs to pass to heal wounds. I hope the best for you. Don't force the issue and listen to your inner voice. She and you could come back to be together again.

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  29. thank you sissy for your reply. I understand... I do have one more question for the Gemini woman. once you've decided one something, will you guys stick to your decisions...or can your feelings still influence your decisions afterwards?

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  30. thank you sissy for your reply. I understand... I do have one more question for the Gemini woman. once you've decided one something, will you guys stick to your decisions...or can your feelings still influence your decisions afterwards?

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  31. thank you for the reply sissy. I understand. I do have another question for the Gemini womans. once you have made a decision for something, are you set on that decision and nothing can change it? or can your decisions still be influenced by your feelings afterwards?

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  32. If anything is consistent about a Gemini in my opinion and this is how I think, my mind is always changeable. Let her think on it for a bit if you can be patient. It almost seems contradictory since I am the kind of Gemini that has no patience. (Ugh) I know that probably isn't much help. My cancer man - (we are off right now and I miss him dearly) if that is any consolation. I think about him everyday. My life is filled with people (family and friends and even men I flirt with but don't date) but he is my true love and the one I think of everyday. I hope I have been somewhat helpful?!?...would there be a time when you would be done with your Gemini girl from a cancer mans perspective?

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  33. again, thank you for you reply sissy. I don't know if a cancer man will ever be done with a Gemini woman. she is my first Gemini woman and this is our first official off. I would need a better understanding in regards to how you and him have been like. throughout all the on and offs, who initiates the break ups? who ends up going back to who first? I know from my previous relationships, once my exs broke up with me, the thought of having a second chance or wanting a second chance never came to mind for me. so this is a first for me having these thoughts and feelings for a second chance with an ex in general. this especially doesn't make sense to me because there was a period of time where she started treating me very poorly. even though she did and I got to a point where I thought about leaving her because it wasn't healthy for me, I still stayed. I pulled through in the end because I believed in us. so I don't even understand why I'm still in this position myself because she's the one the hurt me the most from all my exs. knowing me and considering what happened in this relationship, I would not stay. but like I said earlier, I'm not understanding why I'm still here. I'm not sure if this helped you, but I hope things work out. I am wondering when you got back with your cancer man through the on and offs, did you initiate it first? or did he? that's my dilemma now... I know to patient, but I'm not sure if she felt the same way again, would she even let me know or not.

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  34. OMG I meant a Cancer and I am soooo inlove like right alway. we connected so quickly

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  35. OMG I meant a Cancer and I am soooo inlove like right alway. we connected so quickly

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  36. Perhaps that has to do with your Venus and Mars in a planet that is decisive. That plays a part also. To find a free report I recommend astrolab.com to dig deeper. Idk but I don't think everyone falls into all catagories. I found l still love Linda Goodmans books which are helpful and very close to personalities. But I think the a birth chart is more accurate. Just my two cents. Good luck and good for you for sticking to your guns :) hagd !!! I didn't realize I had both accounts fwiw I am "gelliebeans and sissy" ps Michael I tried to reply to you and it would not let me.

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