Gemini Woman - Gemini Man


Rock. Paper. Scissors. Shoot. This is how they will make some of their most important decisions; fast and without a whole ton of thought.  They do not find the need to sit and ponder everything in life.  The fun part in life is the spontaneity of going wherever the wind takes you.  To most this sounds terrifying, and not a way to go about life.   How can you have no real roots in life?  Well as the character Jack Dawson from the movie Titanic said so well when he was invited to first class to dine with a table of aristocratic snobs, and Rose's mother asks him if he finds his rootless existence appealing he answers, "Well, yes, ma'am, I do... I mean, I got everything I need right here with me. I got air in my lungs, a few blank sheets of paper. I mean, I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, where I'm gonna wind up. Just the other night I was sleeping under a bridge and now here I am on the grandest ship in the world having champagne with you fine people. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next. You learn to take life as it comes at you... to make each day count."

And that is just what these two will do each day together, they will make every day count.  As I have said countless times that the Gemini Man is Peter Pan, and that the Gemini Woman is a sprite otherwise known as Tinkerbell.  Together they can live in their Neverland, undisturbed by the  harshness if reality. Who really wants to grow up anyways? These two will go through life wanting to learn something new every day, and what better way to do that with your best friend?

These two are both very chatty, I mean they are both Mutable Signs after all. They are so good with words, and can even make bad news sound good. This is that couple that will be both talking at the same time, sometimes about the same thing and sometimes not. They may tend to leave their listeners in a tizzy, but they both love to be heard. This may sometimes tend to make them battle for the stage, but if they do battle it won't be a long one. They get over things as fast as they got under it, because they are already moving on to the next thing before you can even bat an eye.

They are the sign of the Twins, because in each Gem lies two if not more personalities. So imagine how many characters you will see come out of this couple. Many Geminis have an alias, or a nickname for their alter ego. The two of them will have several nicknames for one another, and will love waking up to see who they are dealing with that day, hour, or even minute. Because of their duality, their sex will be different and magical every time. There is a certain understanding between these two sexually. There is something so wistful, fun, and light about their sex. It is magical, almost like looking at a prism when the light hits it just right, and you see all of the beautiful colors scatter and dance across the room. What they have is nothing short of magic.

Sometimes the other twin will want to escape for a while when they feel like they are losing themselves in their partner, and they get so caught up in the moment that they leave their love in the dust. One thing that these two will have to work on is to not get ahead of themselves or their counterpart. Hold hands through life, and race across the stars together. As every Gemini knows, it is not the destination that matters but the journey itself. He will have to reassure her that he is there for her even while he is away on one of his Gemini endeavors, but assure her you will be together soon. Geminis do not care for loneliness one bit, they get bored way too easily for that.

These two are as lighthearted can be, but it takes a long time for them to really make a decision to give them whole selves to another. It takes patience, trust, and a deep connected friendship to really and completely be ready for the M word (aka marriage). Life to a Gem is never meant to be lived to seriously, and marriage is a serious topic that they do not in any sense take lightly. They may even have to part ways for a bit because one is ready and the other is not, but usually the other twin will realize that they want to return to their quirky and magical sense of reality that only they two of them can really make. They will realize that they really aren't like other couples, and they love that about their relationship. Most couples strive to be one with each other, but that sounds so boring to this Gemini duo. Besides, how is that possible for a couple that is not even one person within themselves to be one with someone of the same nature? It is not, and that is something quite incredible.

 

Taurus Woman - Taurus Man


The Taurus Man has a sweet strong way about him.  This is something that most women will swoon over, but the Taurus Woman silently appreciates it.  These two have so much in common with one another which they will really love about each other.  They will both love the great outdoors, they will both love the fresh smell of grass on their porch while drinking fresh French pressed coffee, and over a crisp newspaper they will love discussing the raise of their stocks in the current market.  They truly are such tangible creatures, and this is something that they will love to share.  They will probably have an incredibly beautiful home together, filled with leather, wood, and plush furnishings, and most likely an animal or two.  They are the couple that has a garden that most would envy. They both have quite the green thumb as most Earth Signs do.

There are definitely Bulls that are city dwellers as well.  Taurus are naturally drawn to anything financial, and these two will possibly even meet at work.  They do have excellent work ethic and they are naturally inclined to jobs that showcase that well.  They do love the lavish life that the city has to offer them, but there is something deep down in a Taurus' soul that longs to be in nature.  These two may even decide to retire at a ranch, and pick up a knack for horseback riding.  Things like that come so naturally to them.  See, things are so much more pleasurable to the senses than a city and a Bulls senses are so important in in making them happy.  So maybe they may never make it out of the city, but they will vacation often to escape the noise and bustle.

I have gotten a bit ahead of myself with these two, but marriage is just something that will come between these two so naturally that it is almost expected.  However, one way they won't make it is if for any reason their stubbornness gets in the way.  We all know that Bulls are famous for being very stubborn, and once they have stuck their heels in there is usually no moving them.  This will make things impossible for them to communicate, which will make things impossible for them to ever get to a resolution. They are both fighters through and through.  If the topic of the fight is bad enough, Taurus men and women have been known to just completely walk away from relationships.  They are patient, so they will take their sweet time for the other person to surrender which just doesn't always happen.

Sex will be something that can heal a lot of their issues, and soften their willfulness against each other.  As I mentioned before, these two are tangible and their attraction will be carnal for one another. They will have an earthly, slow, and physical union. They will go to another dimension with one another, just by hearing the sound of each others voices.  They will both usually have a beautiful voice, sensual almost.  They will enjoy each other very much.  But every once in a while, being the fact that they are both relaxed and sometimes lazy Bulls, will need to spice things up every once in a while.  It won't take much more that a tender touch or a soft kiss.  Aphrodisiacs are something that work well, so go out for a round of oysters and finish with some dark chocolate with a bottle of red wine and they will be in business in no time.

Together they really can have a beautiful life together, and they will.  They are truly a beautiful match together.  As a team, they are able to make a beautiful home together, have beautiful memories filled with delicious dinners, amazing vacations and nights of sensuality.  They will have a beautiful nest egg in the bank, making their retirement years potentially some of the best years of their life.  These Venus ruled creatures may just be living on Venus here on Earth.  A life full of lovely love.


 

Aries Woman - Aries Man

As independent and strong as he is, she is just the same.  These are two Rams we are dealing with here; they will either hook horns or climb a mountain together, or maybe a little bit of both. When meeting these two for the first time, your first reaction will probably be WOW, with a cloud of smoke behind it.  These two mean business, and in no way do I mean that lightly.  In fact, these two may even end up in business together, either running one, or being key parts in a Fortune 500.  You see they are both fiery independent Cardinal Signs aka natural born leaders.   These people don't have a boss, they ARE THE BOSS.  These two will have to be equals in every sense of the word if this is to work.  Equals at home, equals at work, and equals in bed. 

There will be times of domination from both him and her, but because this is a masculine ruled sign he will probably take the cake.  Or at least you will let him think he does.  There is a lot of masculine energy between these two.  They can literally run the world together if they just learn to get along.  However, behind that hard Ram exterior is a woman that wants and craves to be taken care of.  When you are in the arms of an Aries man, you will always be taken care of which is something she loves.  One place she does not mind giving up her power is in the bedroom.  Especially if her Ram knows what he is doing.  Let's be honest, he is an Aries... of course he knows what he is doing.

It is funny that we are talking about sex so early on in this relationship, usually I save it until the end. But with these two, sex will be at the forefront of their relationship in a lot of ways. There will be a lot of sex between these two. They both like being in charge which can cause a few problems in the bedroom. They have explosive sex with each other, but she needs to remember that HE is the man. If she can learn to give up a little of her independence, and let him take control in the bedroom the sky is the limit with these two. It’s definitely a hot combo.

She really is like taking a shot of cinnamon whiskey, hot at first but she really does finish sweet.  She is fiery alright, but so is her male counterpart.  Sometimes even more to her surprise.  One day she will watch him take a work call, and she will think to herself, "Damn, I am with such a boss."  And she is lucky, but so is he.  However, one thing he will need to do is separate his work from his personal life.  Especially with her.  She has no patience to be bossed around.  She has a daddy, she doesn't need two. No matter WHO you are, she will want you to take her opinion into consideration.  Keeping that in mind, communication with these two will be key in making this relationship really work. 

This woman has a youthful, giving and sweet spirit about her that wants to truly find her Casanova who will spoil her.  Someone who will wine and dine her, someone who is generous, and someone who will ride off into the sunset with her into all her all of unrealistic dreams.  An Aries man can do all of that for her, because he himself is just as young at heart and dreamy as she is.  Aries are the first Sun Sign in the Karmic wheel, making them of the babies of the Zodiac.  They LOVE to get their way, and as long as these two want the same things, there is nothing that can stand in their way.

There is something that is so uncontrollable about their love, almost like a wildfire that is even too hot to be stopped by water.  However, when something is too hot sometimes it can burn out too fast.  If these two want to last, they will have to try to keep their heat at a smolder to make it last as long as an Aries possibly can.  Everything they do will be at 110%; their love making, their fights, their work ethic, etc.  If I can tell you anything, I would tell you to try to do your absolute best to remember your partner and how lost you may be without them.  As independent as the Ram is, they deeply long for a partner.  A true life partner.  So be kind and patient with one another.  If anyone can understand your significant other, it is you for you are one in the fiery same.  There is a very simple rule that these two can always come back to, "Do to others what you want them to do to you."  If you both can live by this, you two can truly rule the world together.

 

Conjunction; is it the new Trine?



Linda Goodman is my Astrology guru.  I have loved her work forever, and own all of her books in which I have read multiple times.  She always believed that being in a relationship with someone that was Trine to your Sun Sign was the ideal match for you.  If you have absolutely no idea what all of this Trine business is that I speak of please visit this post for more explanation.  I still do believe that being with someone that is Trine to you is easier, but Linda wrote her books years ago, and times are changing.

I have noticed that a lot of people, including myself, are marrying people that are Conjuct to their sign. Meaning you are in a relationship with the same Sun Sign that you yourself are. I have been pondering over the past year why this could be, and I think that it could be for a few reasons. People are now marrying at an older age. When you live alone, or when you are single for some time, you form an incredibly important and strong relationship with yourself. As Carrie Bradshaw said, “The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous.”

We are not in the days of our mothers and grandmothers anymore.  We are no longer pressured to get married at 20, we are no longer obligated to find our self-worth through childbearing.  Our 20's are now a time for self discovery, not self-sacrifice for others.  For those of you that are young mothers and fathers, I have the utmost respect and praise for you and I am not saying that you are not independent and self-aware, it is just harder to find that piece of yourself when you have other people that depend on you.  

Maybe we are now marrying our same Sun Sign, because women and men fall in love with themselves before they fall in love with another?

Think about it for a moment....

I do not want this to be taken egotistically, but more of just something interesting to think about.  I am a Scorpio (I have a Sagittarius Rising and Scorpio Moon) and I am undoubtedly married to my soulmate who is a Scorpio (he has a Leo Rising and an Aries Moon).  I would be completely lying if I told you that our relationship was easy, but the things that I do love about him most are things that we have in common. We share the same goals, the same desires, the same lust for life, and we are on the same playing field.  We are true equals to one another.  Isn't that the way of the future?

I have written 4 Conjuct relationship posts thus far;


I will be starting a new series in which I will be finishing the rest of the Conjunct Relationship posts.  So if you yourself are in one of these relationships stay tuned.  Conjunction junction, what's your function? 


 

Capricorn Woman - Gemini Man


These two are most definitely a modern couple by your typical definition. Not to say that she is the man in the relationship by any means, she just has a lot of characteristics that are stereotypical of a man's role in a relationship.  For example, to be the more practical and level headed one.  The Gemini Man is not by any means feminine, but he is and always will be young at heart. He is the Peter Pan of all of the signs, and he has no intention of growing up.   They may even bicker about how she acts too old and needs to lighten up, and she will say he is immature and frustrating.  She is definitely the grown up out of the two of them, but he lightens her heart in a way that she needs so bad.  He is definitely the fun one out of the two of them, but he makes his life have so much more stability and meaning that he didn't even know he was missing.

After some time, and when trust has been built he will see more and more of her personality peek out from her high built walls and he will adore her even more. One thing she will have to work on is criticizing him too much. One thing a Gemini man just cannot stand is someone who nitpicks. There are other ways to sway this man, but nagging is not one. He will have to be a little more responsible with things that he never placed importance on before he met her, like money. She will most likely pay the bills and he will most likely be just fine with that. She will take care of things at home, and he will take care of her heart.

This relationship usually works better when the Gemini man is later through his life. If he is young, this may be a learning lesson for both of them and they could even come back together at a later time when he is ready to meet her halfway. She is always a grown up, even when she is young. I cannot say the same about Gemini. His twins are always fighting about what he should be doing in his life, and he usually goes where the wind, or in this case his stronger twin, takes him. He is a free spirit, and she is a rock. Sometimes her steadiness is too much for him, and makes him feel uncomfortable and trapped. He may even need a hiatus every once in a while, which is something that will frustrate the Capricorn. If you love this man, let him go. He will come back if it is right.

As I mentioned earlier, Capricorn women have an older soul, and Geminis are youthful and lively. At first their sex will be physically fulfilling which is usually enough for him, but she will want more. In bed he will bring an element of freshness and fun. This woman will teach him to have rooted, deep, and meaningful sex. She will pull him right down from the clouds into her earthy oneness. She makes him present in the act, when most of the time his mind is wandering. She will make him connect in sex in a way he has probably not felt a need to before. She gives sex more of a purpose than just surface.

One way to keep their relationship fresh is travel. This is something that they will really love to do together, and he will be at his best during these times. She is not as much a wanderlust as he is, but if she has luxurious and comfortable surroundings where she is able to get her Starbucks and normal rituals of home, she will enjoy it for him. One good thing for him would be to travel with his friends. Let him go Cappy! He needs the freedom.

He is a confusing guy, but there is something about this man that brings a new and fun perspective to her usually gray life. He brings in laughter, color, and kindness. Things her heart has needed for so long. As Mercurial and ever-changing this man is, she may never understand him, but she knows she never wants to lose him. She is patient and she is stubborn. If she wants this man, she will create the patience she needs to make anything work. If he is smart, he will realize what a gem this woman is in his life and how she brings a sense of balance to his mind and life. Sometimes Gemini, its nice to just stand still. Like Carrie Bradshaw says in Sex and the City, "I've done the merry go round I've been through the revolving door I feel like I met somebody I can stand still with for a minute and... don't you wanna stand still with me?" Yes Gemini, you have finally found someone that can and WANTS to stand still with you. Relish and cherish that.

 

Capricorn Woman - Scorpio Man


These two are always looking towards the horizon together.  It will be one thing that really bonds them.  Once they do date, it is rare that these two will not marry.  They only have room in their heads to dwell on the future and where they are going, rather than wasting time on thinking about their past.  They will portray a couple that is strong, successful, and never has any problems.  There are no frills or over the top displays of love or affection, because they have more of a quiet and strong understanding.  The energy between them is... grown up.  These two thrive on having all of their ducks in a row, and together they make a great team at this.  They are that couple that are college educated with the house, the cars, the hefty savings account, and great jobs.

One thing they also have in common is how private they are.  These two have no desire to let anyone know of any problems that they do have.  You might be asking yourself what kind of problems such a well off couple may have, but we all know there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.  One thing they do differ about is their true inner emotional beings.  A Scorpio man is much more emotional than he ever leads anyone to believe.  This may come as a shock to a Capricorn woman, seeing her strong Scorpio mate so emotionally up in arms about something.  But as I have explained in the Scorpio Man post, there is a whole other side to this man that most people will never know unless you are truly close to him.  He really does care a great deal what others think of him, unlike her where she could give a damn.  She is not a Water Sign as he is, and her emotional nature tends to be a lot more consistent.

When they meet one another, they will both have their walls up, and both for similar reasons. He will have his up to protect his emotions, and hers to protect her soft heart.  If they can just let each other in, they will really find out how incredible a union between them can be.  And that is why I mentioned earlier that if they do end up jumping the hurdles that they create for the other person, they will most likely marry.  After several years of solid marriage, they will have to work on the Zsa Zsa Zsu as Carrie Bradshaw from Sex in the City calls it.  She explains it like this, "That butterflies-in-your-stomach thing that happens when you not only love the person, but you gotta have them. Isn’t that what gets you through the years? Even if it fades, at least you have the memory of the zsa zsa zsu…'”  And let's face it, the zsa zsa zsu fades in every relationship, but because these two can tend to be a little too practical they will need to make a bit more effort to spice things up.  Travel is a great thing for them.  A change of scenery is always good for the zsa zsa zsu.

When it comes to sex, he is always looked at as a sexual sign, which they are but not like how many imagine. He is sexy, and does exude a sexual nature. However, he does not pursue sex as a hobby but treats sex as a religious experience. She will be intrigued with his intense sexual energy. She may even feel uncomfortable as his eyes penetrate the walls she has built so sturdy around herself. Their sex is clear and uncomplicated. He has a sexual hypnotism over her that should frighten her, but doesn’t. She can let lose sexually and feel comfortable around him. They feel safe and comfortable in each other’s presence.  As confident as she is, her sexuality is not something that she has had ease with in the past.  Yet with him it is so natural.

Her strength mixed with her soft ways, makes him want to fulfill her in every way.  There is something so lonely about her, and he wants to be the one to change that.  She doesn't believe in fulfillment through relationships, but he will arouse passion and feelings in her that she has never felt before.  All of this will happen in the privacy of their own home behind closed doors of course.  But if you look at them closely, you will see their eyes meet and her stoic stare will be broken by his intense eyes and they will both smile just a bit.  You see, these two understand something just not quite everyone can really get.  A bonding of two hearts that are not easily attainable.

 

Sagittarius Woman - Libra Man



Falling for a Libra man is such an easy thing to do.  Seriously though, there is nothing about this man that is short of absolutely charming.  If this Sagittarius woman has been hurt in the past, this duo may be nothing but a lovely lustful bond, because she will not believe that his charms are real.  She is no fool, and has no time for any games.  Stick around though Sag, this guy has a lot more to him than just a beautiful dimpled face and smooth words.

She will be asking herself every step of the way, "Should I keep seeing this guy?"  He will find her hesitation amusing, and a challenge.  The chemistry will undoubtedly be there, but she will take forever to believe that it is real.  I believe that every Sagittarius should tattoo a heart on their wrist, because they really do wear it on their sleeve.  Once a Sag has been hurt by people that she so beautifully trusted, she will be a lot smarter about jumping in head first.  To love or not to love, that is always Sagittarius' question.  They are so free and full of fire, and she has had people try to dim her light in the past.  He won't though, in fact it is as though he does the opposite.  He will feed her fire, and make her lust for life the way she should.  The way she is made to.

With the Libra man, she will learn that love really can be forever.  Libra is the sign of relationships, and Sagittarius is all about travel, adventure, and continued learning.  There is a saying that you never go a day without learning something new, and that most definitely holds true to a Sagittarius.  He is a natural leader, being the Cardinal Sign that he is, and she is a Mutable Sign making her an excellent communicator.  If she can give him the direction, he can make things happen for her that she never imagined.

She does not have to be talked in to wanting forever with him.  She wants that one true love that she has always believed is out there, it may just take her time to believe.  So have patience Libra, and stick around.  She is totally worth it.  She always looks at the world through her rose colored glasses no many hardships or heartbreaks she has been through.  He sunny disposition is sometimes a facade for what she has really been through, but life is too short for her to mope around.  The world is a big beautiful place filled with so many adventures to go on, people to meet, and love stories to experience.

These two are quite the pair; she is so smiley, hilarious and clumsy while he is so charming, and indecisive.  At times they really can be like Frick and Frack.  They also find each other quite hilarious and amusing as well.  It does not take a whole lot of effort for them to get along at all, especially once they have played the "should we be together" game.  There is an ease about them that not a lot of other sign combinations have.  They have a ton in common, and they may not see it right away but they really do want the same things in life.

The friendship they have deepens the meaning of their sex. They thoroughly enjoy sharing their bodies with each other, and she will love how he appreciates her femininity. Their sex is cheerful, free, and fun. Being the talker she is, she will like to talk about how awesome it was, and he won't mind a bit. They connect through conversation just as much if not more than sex. They feel like they can even see the world a little clearer after oneness with each other.  

Sometimes however, her conversation can turn blunt which will hurt him.  This is something she will need to work on.  His indecisiveness is something that will irritate her, and it will be something that he will have to improve upon.  She is way more impulsive than he is, and he will not understand that about her at all.  He loves a good nap, and peaceful surroundings.  I wouldn't necessarily called being around a Sag peaceful, but it will something that she understand he needs.  He will calm her down, and she will help him understand that you do not need to go through life trying to weigh out every single decision that is ever presented to you.  Sometimes you just need to go where the wind takes you, and that spontaneity in life is what makes it beautiful.

A great example of that will be the day they decide to start dating;  Maybe it was a cool crisp autumn day, and he decided they should get some hot cider and take a walk in the park.  He had probably been thinking about all of the reasons why they should and shouldn't date for days now.  They will sit down on the bench and he will look into her turquoise eyes, the eyes of his best friend, and his lover.  Just as he is about to go through his list of pros and cons the top of her cider comes off as she goes for a sip, and spills all over her white sweater.  They both laugh uncontrollably until tears come out of their eyes, and he then realizes then that his list doesn't even matter.  This girl with all of her perfect imperfections is the one for him.